Topic: dating problems
sexyin07's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:13 AM
hi my name is crystal and im in a relationship with a guy that i think might be cheating on me and i have another guy who wants to go out with me and i really love the guy im with what should i do

RKISIT's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:15 AM
find out for sure that he is cheating on you first,then go from there.:smile:

papersmile's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:16 AM
i think you should dump them both and start again from scratch.

lilith401's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:20 AM
Why do you think he "might" be cheating?

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:20 AM
I think if you have to ask "what should I do?" you're already considering the other guy. You need to cut him out of the picture so you can think clearly. Make sure you have absolute proof that your guy is cheating on you before you make any hasty decisions.

RKISIT's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:21 AM

i think you should dump them both and start again from scratch.
c'mon that would be to easylaugh laugh

sexyin07's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:26 AM
my mom found a card form a girl addressed to him and she opened it and read what it said and it said hi baby i cant wait to see u i asked satna what i wanted for christmas and he washed my mouth out with soap and there are a few other people that are telling me he is nd the other guy really wants to go out with me

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Mon 01/12/09 08:27 AM
So, if I'm understanding you, guy a is cheating and you think it's ok to cheat with guy b because guy a is cheating? Sorry, don't think so. It's never ok to cheat. If guy a IS cheating, then kick him to the curb before you start dating guy b. If he's not, then at the very least you have some pretty big trust issues with guy a and you probably want to resolve that, again, before you start dating someone else.

lilith401's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:27 AM
So how serious are you and the guy who's allegedly cheating?

sexyin07's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:28 AM
im not dating guy b just yet i wnat to make sure guy a is really cheating on me before i do

summertyme25's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:29 AM
well dont punish him for a card did you ask him about it

He didnt write it I know that I am in a relationship and guys have wrote things to me that were uninvited

I mean has the other guy written or said anything like that to you

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:29 AM

my mom found a card form a girl addressed to him and she opened it and read what it said and it said hi baby i cant wait to see u i asked satna what i wanted for christmas and he washed my mouth out with soap and there are a few other people that are telling me he is nd the other guy really wants to go out with me



Well, I was doing pretty good with understanding your question until I read this. Now I'm completely lost. frustrated

summertyme25's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:30 AM
but then again if you are really interested in this other guy than you might want to consider it I mean if it was tru-love with the one you are with you wouldnt be considering it

lilith401's photo
Mon 01/12/09 08:36 AM

but then again if you are really interested in this other guy than you might want to consider it I mean if it was tru-love with the one you are with you wouldnt be considering it


Exactly, I think our OP has already made her decision....