why does it seem all the girls i have liked always go for bad guys, the most recent girl said she was in love with me for almost the last 3 years and then she started seeing a fat drunk loser behind my back, this all started one night when the guy was at a bar drunk and he called the wrong person and said some sexual things to her and she magically decided she was in love with him. i'm good guy, i do no wrong and i treat people right and i never get nothing for it. what is this world coming to.

nice guy = not confident or boring

No wonder you all are so angry at "nice guys". lol

im a fat drunk,and a perve.lol

humm that's hard 2 explain.
It must be the strong attitude some guys have, the confidence, or sense of protection we get from them.
who knows...

I've said this before and I'll say it again-

They go for the "bad guys" because they equate being an "asshole" with being "confident" despite the fact that they're not even close to being the same thing.

nice guy
noun

def: see lack of confidence

no worrys


let the woman go for the ones who abuse them and all that,cant change it,but it is sad

I would look at the kind of girl you are choosing first. Then I would make sure that you are communicating very well on what each of you want from the other, what constitutes commitment, when you two are truly committed, what violates that commitment, are you in it for the long haul, etc... Then after that you should be aware of what is happening.

Remember that some people do not or cannot commit, it doesn't make them bad just different from those who do.

Good luck.

i love good guys

Because women are evil and never know what they want in the first place.

Nice guys hmm?
Lets be honest here, there is a fine line between being nice and being a push over. Self proclaimed "Nice guys" tend to let anyone and everyone walk all over them. Who the hell would want to be with someone that rolls on command? You accept people crapping on you and never stand up and fight back.

As far as a nice guy lacking confidence, not always true. What i do find however is noone wants to be with a weak person. Mentally weak people tend to give nothing back in a relationship and drain all the energy out of the other person. I consider myself a nice guy yet would still knock the crap out of someone that crosses the line.

So for all those nice guys out there.. be nice, not weak. There is a difference.

I'm not so sure that was an "accidental phone call" but that's besides the point. some people(men included) just lose appreciation of a good thing when they have it.

I just assume not care at all.

I have my truck,my apartment,and my job,have my friends on here,and even some I have met.


if I meet a loving lady one day soo great.if not one day it will happen.

Chucky from Child's Play was a Good Guy and look where that got Andy. Just putting it out there.

Good guys always win,theres something to be said about always being faithful and honorable.The hell with a popularity contest or who gets more,fact is..those that deprive themselves of honor and disresepct others in any way are the losers in life.Humble recognition and doing the right thing always no matter the conditions make for a real person,anyone else less of those standards,just are futile and pointless

Well maybe I look at this from a different direction but it would seem like you won the real prize; your freedom from a foolish woman. Thankfully you did not marry her or end up fathering children with this crazy and can hopefully apply greater wisdom in your future choice.