Topic: How soon is too soon?
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Sun 01/11/09 01:24 AM
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darkowl1's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:25 AM

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lilwick86's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:28 AM

nobody on earth should ever date again.laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl





just stand there......and look at each other.surprised <----like this.

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Sat 01/24/09 01:26 PM
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PATSFAN's photo
Sat 01/24/09 01:28 PM

nobody on earth should ever date again.laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl





just stand there......and look at each other.surprised <----like this.




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freeonthree's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:36 AM
Edited by freeonthree on Sun 01/25/09 11:51 AM

smile2 How soon is too soon to start dating again after a break up?smile2


That depends totally on the situation. How long have you been together ? If you have been together for a year or more, you should consider the fact that your obviously deeply attracted to each other, and most likely have a few comon interests, so trying to figure out what went wrong, and corroecting it would be the best plan of attack in my opinion.
If your just bored with the sex, and you didn't really love each other, then head for the bar and find another victim I guess.
Love and sex have nothing to do with each other, so if you start a relationship with someone just because you like the way they look, and you love screwing them, it wont last. As soon as your get used to looking at them and having sex with them, they will become boring to you, and you'll want something new to play with.
If you really love someone, and you split up for some reason, I suggest you give it a year, in hopes of getting back together. That is unless, your absolutely sure the other person doesn't really love you. Thats when the pain sets in, and in that case, you best start learning how to mingle again, so you can find a new mate, but until you can truely manage you past love issues, you won't be able to engage in a meaningful relationship with someone else for long, because they will detect your akwardness to display your feelings.
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with... smokin

This is why I will never bail on my sweet Maria. I love her to death, and she has proven to me, that she loves me, and always will, no matter what. I've even tried to make her go away for her own good, but she sticks to me like glue, no matter what I say or do. Gosh darnit ! This is a no brainer... I love her so much, that im willing to set her free to find a man with a bright future, for her own good as it were...
And she loves me so much, that nothing but cheating will drive her away, and I would NEVER cheat on her, NO WAY ! I love her...
How long do you wait if you split up ?
I decided long ago, that if Maria and I ever break up, im not going to ever date again, but thats just me... You see... noone in the world will ever love me way Maria does, she's the first one who ever has, and I could never settle for less now. So it all depends on the situation...
How long were you going together ? Did you truely love her ? The answer is in the last question smokin

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Sun 01/25/09 11:39 AM
You should wait at least until you come home from the breakup before you start making phone calls etc. Unless of course you are already home. Then you should wait until he/she leaves.

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Sun 01/25/09 11:41 AM

smile2 How soon is too soon to start dating again after a break up?smile2


It all depends on how quickly you find someone else to replace the one you broke up with. Could be as soon as minutes.

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:51 AM
20 years.

rlynne's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:51 AM
who ever offers the best lay post breakup.. except your ex, because they are now dirty...


nobody really needs the emotional crap anyway


njmom05's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:53 AM

smile2 How soon is too soon to start dating again after a break up?smile2

It took me a year after this last one to even care about dating. Even now, I am in no rush to meet anyone, but if it happens, it happens.

freeonthree's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:55 AM

20 years.


Thats alot of riding bro... smokin

Akinyahalo's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:01 PM
I think it all depends on how long you were with the other person and how deep of a relationship it was

freeonthree's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:01 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Sun 01/25/09 12:02 PM
OK, i've read alot of your posts, and there seems to be a huge lack real love in your pasts. Ya sound like I did when I was 20. I dunno... im 55, and I want something real this time, or I want nothing at all. I'd wait forever to get the right woman back, and I would not cheat in the meantime either. Thats real love, and I finally got it :banana:

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:03 PM
it depends on the relationship... in my last relationship, i knew it wasn't working months before we ever broke up... so i mourned the end of the relationship before it was even over...

freeonthree's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:06 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Sun 01/25/09 12:07 PM

it depends on the relationship... in my last relationship, i knew it wasn't working months before we ever broke up... so i mourned the end of the relationship before it was even over...


I bet that didn't help much... The ol upbeat, happy happy, joy, joy method may have worked better. You can't fix a diamond with a hammer smokin

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:08 PM
Each individual is going to be different. Only the heart knows and will let you know when the time is right!

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:19 PM

the day before


I was gonna quote on the "30 minutes" one

But this is funnier laugh laugh laugh

Totage's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:22 PM

smile2 How soon is too soon to start dating again after a break up?smile2


It varies from person to person, just make sure you're over the last person before gettin into anything.

freeonthree's photo
Sun 01/25/09 12:28 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Sun 01/25/09 01:06 PM


the day before


I was gonna quote on the "30 minutes" one

But this is funnier laugh laugh laugh


I used to be terrible. I'd be on the phone within seconds. lol I guess things change when ya get older...