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Topic: Why do so many say they want a loving guy but run away when
Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:15 AM




because there is a fine line between asshat and pansyass.

some guys can't seem to walk that line.

some are asshats..

some are pansyasses.

i can't abide by either.

walk the line.

(let me enlighten you.. balance is key. you can be sensetive but dont be the freakin pansy from bedazzled who cries at the sunset and sings songs about dolphin safe tuna. i can talk to my girls about my freakin feelings on everything. sometimes i just want a man to be strong for/with me. and that means have your own opinion, not just share mine, don't be afraid to express that opinion and tell me when i'm wrong. not just be mushy and try to avoid confrontation. nothing sucks more than dating a guy who is a freakin emotional leech.)


But I thought women wanted an sensitive, in touch with his feelings, cries at sunsets, kind of guy?:tongue: laugh

(I watched this movie last month, and laughed so hard during that scene. What a pansy!!)




maaaaannn thats the biggest misconseption out there. ya know? i mean sure there has to be some chick out there needing that kind of attention... the creepy kind. but really.. i'm not lookin for a man to constantly have a knockdown drag out fight with but shoot... stand up for yourself ya know? stop taking it up the emotional poop shoot and be a man!!

LOL okay i'm done.

and yeah.. that was hands down my favorite character.. that ... and the columbian drug lord. "YO SOY HABLAR ESPANOL!!"

HAHAHA


The basketball character was hillarious too.

But yeah, a guy who is THAT sensitive is creepy. I know women want a sensitive guy, but in no way like that character. She needs a man....A MAN'S MAN!:wink:

I like rough women.bigsmile laugh


the saying "man's man..." makes me think gay.

hahah

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Sun 01/11/09 01:16 AM
laugh laugh I swear if I get a Michael Landon crier I will kill myself and him.......preferrably him first!!noway :wink: laugh laugh

Goofball73's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:16 AM
I was gonna say "Macho Man", but then I thought about the Village People and changed it.laugh

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Sun 01/11/09 01:19 AM
I Dont want them to cry while chopping the wood!!!noway

Cuz thats my job!!!noway :cry: laugh

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:19 AM


timing is everythingflowerforyou


I think that it's chemistry too - both of them.


I think, also, there has to be a foundation of friendship built! There can't be a jump into a relationship per say. If you work on a friendship, first, and see where things go from there. And the fact that you are caring and real will be shown through your actions and words. Not through you saying that you are 'caring and kind'

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:23 AM
:banana: :banana:

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Sun 01/11/09 01:29 AM

i think its a classic case of numbers that wont add up... 90% of women want to "be with" 10% of men lol flowerforyou


are those the "nice guys"?laugh

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:30 AM
surprised

lilwick86's photo
Sun 01/11/09 01:31 AM


I think it has more to do with the difference women place on what they want vs what they desire and I frankly do not see the difference!


no the problem is that we want those things from a certain kind of guy.
and men do it too.
every one of us here could find SOMEONE to get that kind of attention from
but it isn't worth having if it isn't from THE ONE you want it from.


I agree. Yup Yup!happy

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