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parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Tue 01/06/09 03:12 PM
anyone who puts a picture of themself and another person of the opposite sex cut out of the picture except for just enough to tell its a person of the opposite sex? My first reaction is that they are with someone who made them real happy and look and feel good. like an old flame, and now they are out........of the picture..lol Other times it seems obvious that the other person is their son or daughter and they just don't their pic on the web. Either way it has a negative effect on me. opinions anyone?????

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 01/06/09 03:15 PM
I just take it that they either don't have another pic of themselves or can't take another one....and you need to post again to get rid of those numbers

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 01/06/09 03:16 PM
Well, my opinion is, it's too easy to just post another pic of yourself, and skip the "cropped" one altogether, no matter how good you think you look in it. I lost most of my pics a while ago, but I've gotten others. So it just takes a little time to do that. Otherwise, yeah, I wonder if he's hiding his wife/girlfriend,or whatever? LOL Plus, I don't think it's really necessary to post group shots on a dating site. I guess they want us to know they have friends???

_karen_ Joined Wed 12/24/08 Posts: 208	Tue 01/06/09 03:16 PM
Lol 666 Anyways I don't really think anything of it...maybe they just like how they look in the picture and not the other person?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 01/06/09 03:16 PM
I just take it that they either don't have another pic of themselves or can't take another one....and you need to post again to get rid of those numbers OMG, the numbers!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 01/06/09 03:17 PM
I stay away from people with pics like that

parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Tue 01/06/09 03:17 PM
OMG........LOL

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 01/06/09 03:17 PM
Well, my opinion is, it's too easy to just post another pic of yourself, and skip the "cropped" one altogether, no matter how good you think you look in it. I lost most of my pics a while ago, but I've gotten others. So it just takes a little time to do that. Otherwise, yeah, I wonder if he's hiding his wife/girlfriend,or whatever? LOL Plus, I don't think it's really necessary to post group shots on a dating site. I guess they want us to know they have friends??? I wonder if the people in the group shots know that their pictures are on the internet.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 01/06/09 03:18 PM
OMG........LOL All better.

parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Tue 01/06/09 03:19 PM
Lol 666 Anyways I don't really think anything of it...maybe they just like how they look in the picture and not the other person? I can't help but wonder if the person thinks that they were at their best when with the other person.......whadaya think?

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 01/06/09 03:20 PM
OMG........LOL Good job

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 01/06/09 03:20 PM
Well, my opinion is, it's too easy to just post another pic of yourself, and skip the "cropped" one altogether, no matter how good you think you look in it. I lost most of my pics a while ago, but I've gotten others. So it just takes a little time to do that. Otherwise, yeah, I wonder if he's hiding his wife/girlfriend,or whatever? LOL Plus, I don't think it's really necessary to post group shots on a dating site. I guess they want us to know they have friends??? I wonder if the people in the group shots know that their pictures are on the internet. Good point. Awkward.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Tue 01/06/09 03:20 PM
Lol 666 Anyways I don't really think anything of it...maybe they just like how they look in the picture and not the other person? I can't help but wonder if the person thinks that they were at their best when with the other person.......whadaya think? Could just be their favorite pic....doesn't bother me

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Tue 01/06/09 03:22 PM
i'd never post a photo of someone without their permission and there have been plenty of times that i've cropped out a person from a photo. i've never done it with an ex however; just family and/or friends. i doubt i'd think twice about it.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Tue 01/06/09 03:24 PM
anyone who puts a picture of themself and another person of the opposite sex cut out of the picture except for just enough to tell its a person of the opposite sex? My first reaction is that they are with someone who made them real happy and look and feel good. like an old flame, and now they are out........of the picture..lol Other times it seems obvious that the other person is their son or daughter and they just don't their pic on the web. Either way it has a negative effect on me. opinions anyone????? In all cases like that (according to dating experts) it is not an appealing sight and rates of success is much lower.

parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Tue 01/06/09 03:25 PM
with not much more than a picture, maybe I am over analyzing?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 01/06/09 03:25 PM
anyone who puts a picture of themself and another person of the opposite sex cut out of the picture except for just enough to tell its a person of the opposite sex? My first reaction is that they are with someone who made them real happy and look and feel good. like an old flame, and now they are out........of the picture..lol Other times it seems obvious that the other person is their son or daughter and they just don't their pic on the web. Either way it has a negative effect on me. opinions anyone????? In all cases like that (according to dating experts) it is not an appealing sight and rates of success is much lower. My fav is when they crop it badly, or even better use magic marker or something to "erase" the other person. Classy!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 01/06/09 03:26 PM
anyone who puts a picture of themself and another person of the opposite sex cut out of the picture except for just enough to tell its a person of the opposite sex? My first reaction is that they are with someone who made them real happy and look and feel good. like an old flame, and now they are out........of the picture..lol Other times it seems obvious that the other person is their son or daughter and they just don't their pic on the web. Either way it has a negative effect on me. opinions anyone????? I feel the same way

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 01/06/09 03:26 PM
I just pass on the ones who you KNOW it was their ex that they shaved or blocked out. The other ones that CRACK ME UP are when the pictures are of their LAST (since dead marriage) WEDDING!!! What on earth are they thinking????

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 01/06/09 03:27 PM
I just pass on the ones who you KNOW it was their ex that they shaved or blocked out. The other ones that CRACK ME UP are when the pictures are of their LAST (since dead marriage) WEDDING!!! What on earth are they thinking???? OMG, yeah that's a keeper.