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Topic: big problem
lilith401's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:33 AM
I've dated wealthy men before. I've never taken a dime from them, to support myself. I'd not be able to sleep at night if I let myself be financially beholden to a man I was dating.

I guess you need to find a lady who says "NO" when you offer it. That's the one for you....

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:36 AM
I'm glad it's your problem, not mine. I already have enough on my plate to worry about somebody else's woes.

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Mon 01/05/09 08:52 AM
Not all of us are like that. Some girls look for other qualities in a man.

I noticed you put the seat down.

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Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:57 AM

Alright so I've kind of been in a hard place th last few months. I was a bachelor living on my own, and then a girl came into the mix. We started seeing each other and eventually dated. She movied in with me, and we can all probably guess were this is leading up to lol. but yea I ended up spending all my money on her addictions (drugs,alcohol, Cigarettes) Eventually i ended up loosing my job I wasnt able to pay for what she wanted. She eventually grew tired of me not being able to buy her things and left me. Now im stuch with about $4500 in debt because of her...

No, you're in debt $4500.00 because of your choices.


And to make it worse I found out she was cheating on me the whole time with her ex. The day after she left me she was off screwing him.

So right now i feel used, abused, hurt, and cheated and just wanted to post this to see if anyone wanted to talk, to try and get my mind off of her =[



A loyal practicing drug addict is a mythological creature. You got what you paid for, a valuable lesson.

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