What makes one SAY,,they love you? Through Dating.


And have you experienced a short lived love?

Well those are just words! I was dateing someone a while and I luved him as a friend there's a difference in loving someone & being in LOVE! I have friends that tell me eVeryday that they luv me (WOMEN) Some of my guy friends tell me that also! LOVE is just feelings twards another! You can not really put a TIME on it....

It takes quite a while to know someone enough to feel that deeply for them. I think a lot of times people tend to say it out of the momentum of the moment, without really fully meaning it, which can cause problems later.



My "short-lived love" would have to be my first crush...a little over a year, then he moved away, thought I was gonna die, lol. (I was 12)

Every human is different....There are many kinds of love, and no set time period for a TRUE love to build. It can be instant, or it can be a learned behavior...TRUE love typically hits us fast and HARD...I've noticed that most couples, that have created successful LONG term relationships or marriages started out immediately IN LOVE with thier partner. Unfortunately, there IS the chance that the love isnt real, and is just infatuation...Which will almost immediately go away, just as soon as it started. To find love, we have to be almost delusionally optimistic, and willing to let go to a rush of emotions, passions, and heartaches in order to find that which our hearts and souls desire the most!
Who's to say what LOVE is!? If we're all different, then we all should experience it in different ways...Theres no ONE truth to any concept that humans can conceive...