Topic: would you...
_karen_'s photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:12 AM
forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?

box_OF_rain's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:13 AM

forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?

It would depend on is she mentally ok usually?

_karen_'s photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:14 AM


forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?

It would depend on is she mentally ok usually?

she has depression..but for the most part yeah..i just dont know.

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:14 AM
Well i know the way i am, i would ask her outright wat has happened, and try get to the bottom of wats been said. Face to face communications keep everyone clear, and help ya decide better wat ya wanna do.

no photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:17 AM

forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?
It would be BYE forever,,,for me..
That Sh!t isn't funny....and your friend scares the hell out of me..drinker

box_OF_rain's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:17 AM



forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?

It would depend on is she mentally ok usually?

she has depression..but for the most part yeah..i just dont know.

If she is seeking help thats good.
I would just face her tell her you miss her.
Andf mostly talk it thru.

_karen_'s photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:19 AM




forgive someone who said that you threatened them when you didn't?

used to be best friends with this girl...and i really miss her. but i dont think i deserve a friend who will make things up like that. i could get in serious trouble, ya know?
what do you think?

It would depend on is she mentally ok usually?

she has depression..but for the most part yeah..i just dont know.

If she is seeking help thats good.
I would just face her tell her you miss her.
Andf mostly talk it thru.

I don't see her anymore. We used to work together. The night she told people I threatened her she had people texting me yelling at me. So i basically quit the job because I was sick of the drama there (and many other reasons I was going to leave in 2 weeks anyway) and I changed my number and everything.
I just miss her a lot.

krupa's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:20 AM
Turn your back and walk away. There are over 6 billion people on the planet...what makes this chick so special that she has the right to screw with you and mess up your Kharma? ...... cause obviously, she ain't that good of a friend.

_karen_'s photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:22 AM

Turn your back and walk away. There are over 6 billion people on the planet...what makes this chick so special that she has the right to screw with you and mess up your Kharma? ...... cause obviously, she ain't that good of a friend.

very true. its hard. cause we talked(texting or phone calls) EVERYDAY since June now we don't talk at all.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:24 AM
Keep your distance

krupa's photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:25 AM


I don't see her anymore. We used to work together. The night she told people I threatened her she had people texting me yelling at me. So i basically quit the job because I was sick of the drama there (and many other reasons I was going to leave in 2 weeks anyway) and I changed my number and everything.
I just miss her a lot.




ooops...sorry, just read that....Sounds to me like you are encouraging this situation...

You quit...changed your #...but, still are considering dealing with the situation because you miss her....

Good luck. Hope it works out for you.

_karen_'s photo
Sun 01/04/09 10:30 AM
Thanks for your answers..I think I know what I'm gonna do now...
She betrayed my trust and I loved her to death...
so she can live without me for the rest of her life =]