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Topic: question for the ladies
SitkaRains's photo
Sun 01/04/09 05:42 PM

I got a date and i really enjoy cooking and im good at it too. do you think cooking a nice dinner is too much on the first date?


Honestly I think for a first date I would have to decline. I would love it the second or third. Sorry I think it is sweet and wonderful, yet since if I was in your lady's shoes and I hadn't met you yet I wouldn't take the chance of going to a secluded place on the first meet.
Now after I am with a guy him cooking for me and cleaing the mess is totally hot, sexy, and emotionally fulfilling to me. Since that would be a novelty
Good luck on your date.

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Sun 01/04/09 06:19 PM
Maybe go somewhere public and neutral on the first date. I'd keep it short. Maybe lunch instead of dinner?

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Mon 01/05/09 10:59 AM
I guess it would all depend on what led up to this first date. If you talked for a week or so or emailed back and forth and it was a mutual decision then I don't see a problem with it. I know I like a man who can cook and it's a great way to see how you both interact. Go for it!!!!

ididitforme's photo
Tue 01/06/09 05:39 PM
In this day and age - best to meet in a public place, get to know each other better, feel comfortable with each other. Second date - cook for her. Third date - serve her breakfast in bed baby! rofl

newcommer's photo
Wed 01/07/09 11:39 AM
Of course not , come cook for me.:wink:

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