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      to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question
     
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      At a hotel......until ya asked me to stay.....
 
    
      
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     to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I'd stay at a hotel  | 
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      Definitely a hotel
     
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      Hotel, motel, maybe even under a bridge...  
    
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      The first meet...definitely a hotel. Always have to have an easy out if it doesn't go well.  
    
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      I'd want to be in a hotel.
     
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      Hotel for the 1st meeting..until we get closer or know if there is a connection..
     
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      hotel. 
 
  totally. i mean what if he's a freak and tries to lock you up in his basement? ;p or he has roommates? or parents he's takin care of? or kids!!! oh my god... i need a drink.  | 
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      All depends. I have gone to meet someone for the first time and stayed in their house.  A lot of it depends on how well you think you can control the situation. Oh, and how risk willing you are. I am fairly risk willing, i.e., I'll take the chance I am going to wake up in a hotel bathtub covered in ice with a note taped to my chest that I am missing a kidney.
     
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     to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I booked a B&B as a back-up in case there was no spark the last time I tried a LDR.  | 
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      Hotel, unless something different happens. But I would have the hotel ready.
     
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     All depends. I have gone to meet someone for the first time and stayed in their house. A lot of it depends on how well you think you can control the situation. Oh, and how risk willing you are. I am fairly risk willing, i.e., I'll take the chance I am going to wake up in a hotel bathtub covered in ice with a note taped to my chest that I am missing a kidney.       
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      I'd have to concur with the majority here:  hotel.  Even if it was instant chemistry, let's do neutral territory with no "home advantage."
     
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     to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question   hotel  
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      Well obviously a hotel....it would just be inconsiderate to trash her bedroom and ruin her sheets on the first meeting.
     
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     to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I've done both. Now, I would go with a hotel always.   
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      Save your money.  Sleep in a tent.
     
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      sleep in my truck
     
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      I think it would depend on the relationship you have with the person you are visiting
     
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