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Topic: If you went
misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Fri 01/02/09 05:05 PM
to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 01/02/09 05:07 PM
At a hotel......until ya asked me to stay..... at a hotel.....

Roamer66 Joined Wed 12/24/08 Posts: 169	Fri 01/02/09 05:07 PM
to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I'd stay at a hotel

lacedwithinsanity Joined Sun 12/28/08 Posts: 25	Fri 01/02/09 05:07 PM
Definitely a hotel

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21492	Fri 01/02/09 05:09 PM
I'd have to really wonder about a person who I have never really met in person iviting me to stay at their house. I would make sure I had hotel reservations just in case the meeting didn't go to well.

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Fri 01/02/09 05:10 PM
Hotel, motel, maybe even under a bridge...

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Fri 01/02/09 05:12 PM
The first meet...definitely a hotel. Always have to have an easy out if it doesn't go well.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Fri 01/02/09 05:13 PM
I'd want to be in a hotel.

countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Fri 01/02/09 08:00 PM
Hotel for the 1st meeting..until we get closer or know if there is a connection..

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Fri 01/02/09 08:04 PM
hotel. totally. i mean what if he's a freak and tries to lock you up in his basement? ;p or he has roommates? or parents he's takin care of? or kids!!! oh my god... i need a drink.

Wanderwhere Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 77	Fri 01/02/09 08:06 PM
All depends. I have gone to meet someone for the first time and stayed in their house. A lot of it depends on how well you think you can control the situation. Oh, and how risk willing you are. I am fairly risk willing, i.e., I'll take the chance I am going to wake up in a hotel bathtub covered in ice with a note taped to my chest that I am missing a kidney.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 01/02/09 08:09 PM
to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I booked a B&B as a back-up in case there was no spark the last time I tried a LDR.

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Fri 01/02/09 08:11 PM
Hotel, unless something different happens. But I would have the hotel ready.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Fri 01/02/09 08:12 PM
All depends. I have gone to meet someone for the first time and stayed in their house. A lot of it depends on how well you think you can control the situation. Oh, and how risk willing you are. I am fairly risk willing, i.e., I'll take the chance I am going to wake up in a hotel bathtub covered in ice with a note taped to my chest that I am missing a kidney.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Fri 01/02/09 08:14 PM
I'd have to concur with the majority here: hotel. Even if it was instant chemistry, let's do neutral territory with no "home advantage."

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 01/03/09 04:39 AM
to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question hotel

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 01/03/09 05:32 AM
Well obviously a hotel....it would just be inconsiderate to trash her bedroom and ruin her sheets on the first meeting.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 01/03/09 06:30 AM
to meet someone from here out of state would you stay at their place or a hotel?let's just say it's your choice for this question I've done both. Now, I would go with a hotel always.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sat 01/03/09 06:43 AM
Save your money. Sleep in a tent.

lnghntr Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 1618	Sat 01/03/09 06:45 AM
sleep in my truck