lmao lex always has the best words!!

"Desperation is the ultimate aphrodisiac."

Baron Underbite

Venture Brothers

Well, if you don't you will have to put up with another nice guy thread.

all ladys much date me I am the nicest of em all

Ugh. You're probably right.

OC

I think that went out with hoop skirts, button shoes, and 78 r.p.m. records.

Now, you have to provide a birth certificate, Social Security number, at least three forms of photo I.D., full disclosure of bank statement information, employment status, citizenship status, what kind of vehicle you drive (and how many you have), complete dental records, a full DNA profile, three first-round draft picks, your next week's paycheck, and your first-born.

Then maybe....just MAYBE....you might be considered, but don't get your hopes up.

Well, that's my point. Everybody says that. It's the "right thing to say." And, while it may be true for you, it clearly does not apply to everyone who makes the claim.

The problem is, we've gotten to the point where the words mean nothing. Most of us have some sense of this -- profiles read like a million mindless parrots in unison, all saying the exact same things the exact same way. "Looks don't matter, it's what's on the inside that counts," etc., but they won't even consider a guy who isn't a wealthy Adonis just waiting for a woman to stick a steering wheel in his back.



Again, everybody makes this same claim. The words mean nothing. You may live by them; most don't. The rest of us can't see "who's who" from this distance. It's the dating site equivalent of "guilty until proven innocent," and that's sad, but that's the reality.

In my experience, there are more people who are deceptive and misleading about what they're looking for, than there are honest people. And it's a bad ratio -- I can't even say 100-1 or 1000-1, because I have yet to run into anyone I'm absolutely sure is being honest. Every person I have ever met from a dating site (and granted, that's only nine in total) has been completely dishonest with me.



I'm not even sure we're really disagreeing. All I'm saying is that I'm not swayed by PC-sounding words (if anything, they tend to wind up as grist for the "bad profile" mill), and I'm acknowledging that some of the people who use them may, in fact, be genuine.

I just haven't seen anything to substantiate it.

please don't assume this thread is about myself, I am frustrated in general about some realities on dating websites, I can honestly say I can care less about meeting anyone who is fake or can't accept me for me, there are a lot wonderful single guys and gals out there, I am just saying dating is taking a chance, that's all!

Maybe they're just not attracted hon. Not everyone is attracted to everyone else. Just a thought.

(((((SWEET)))))

hi sweetie

how you been??

Desperately seeking Susan?

Its ONLY always someting in your manner of thinking.
If YOU are positive about who you are, women will sense THAT and YOU will KNOW IT!
And then YOU will have more positive results back to you, instead of this give-up, why-me syndrome...that MANY not just you fall into in your thoughts.
Be YOU, don't be LIGHT,,and be aggressive like your only in THAT conversation, and there will never be another chance to show her..
Then your be walking and dancing WITH her...

Nope not silly!! You got it!!

We may be single, but we aren`t desperate!!

Are you saying you are Desperately seeking? you are attractive, i wish you were close by.