So lets have it... what do you think about my profile? Does the picture say anything, tell me what you think? Thx

all I say is there is a lot,you may wanna think about changing

are there any women on here and what does it take to get some opinions about myself... here it is the New Year almost and i feel so down and lonely right now. i'm trying to have a positive outlook on things and all, but non the less i still feel sad after years of being in a relationship and suddenly now i'm alone. tonight could be very bad for me, lol.

i could end up with anyone! someone that just says hello to me and acknowledges that i'm alive even. i hate being sad and all alone, i like the idea of being single again. but damn after 13years of being with the same person and all, it kinda makes one stare at themselves a little more in the mirror each time they look to see what it is they've done to end up here?

i'm thinking this time around, with the web and everything at my disposal for flirting... and finding someone. if i just be myself and not put on a show or act like someone i'm not, then the right person will find me and together we ought to really feel that sparky zap between us this time, as long as she is honest with me and herself. so where are you at? are you on here or somewheres else, maybe your out there and i need to wear a hat or something that says;

hey, you! yeah you... i'm single, hello... want to talk?

lol, lol.... its tough to break the ice and just walk upto someone and say, hi... ummm i think your cute and i want to spend the rest of my life together with you. but could we try it out for one night and see if it might work out, lol.

your profile looks fine

Kind words are great from any and all but do not expect such things to change your outlook. Self-worth and healing HAS to come from within.

I am not going to kick someone when they are down but I think you are on a crash course to self destruction with the "plan" you have. I would wait a while on enacting it. You can change your mind if you think of something wiser.

You are young and can turn your life around if you choose to. It won't happen suddenly but one day at time; actually one decision at a time. It is fine to try to make yourself happy but if you do it at the expense of others they will eventually get tired of it and leave.

You seem to want love and that is not a bad thing. If you understand Love is a reciprocal relationship of trust and courtesy and should feel good which sometimes takes exerciseing self control and respect for yourself and others. That may sound a little old fashioned but so are other things like lasting relationships and being there through the tough times. I doesn't mean a person can't make a mistake but it means that they have earned grace by their overall loyalty and fairness.

Good luck on your rewrite.

I'm not sure I want people to rate my profile... that takes guts with all the jokers out here.

I have a great sense of humor, but some people can be so cruel.

I welcome constructive criticism, but I'm not so sure I want to put myself out there as a target... what do you think?

picture says... dont mess with me!or ill kick your azz

really? i get that alot... even from my own kids. i swear i'm not that angry. lol... i just uploaded a few more face pictures to see if theres one that shows thru that i'm just a man of a thousand faces... and of course most do seem like i'm mean or angry. lol

maybe thats why people don't mess with me? :)

And, that's the truth.

I understand you are going through a hard time, but your pics scare me and your profile is very discouraging to anyone who might really be interested. Maybe take some time for yourself for a bit. Think about what you like and want you want rather than focusing on what you don't like and what you don't want.

damn... i better delete everything and just put on a Tigger suit. lol

thx for the honesty