Here's another example of "I'm going to send this guy a message without
even bothering to look at the profile." Found this in an inbox on
another site which I will not name:

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i am very caring and loving person..i look forward to meet the man of my
Dream that will always be there for me in any situation in life.i like
truth and i will love and like my Dream man to be faithful, Honest,
trustwhorthy .I really
need a very serious relationship with a real man here, am not here to
play games, i want to have my own family with a real man here, am
honest, caring, humble, passionate, caring, Godfearing, lovely, loyal. I
love travelling, dancing, cooking etc, am not getting younger anymore, i
want to have my own kids
with a real man here, am very serious, i really need a very serious
relationship here with someone am gonna spend the rest of my life with
inpeace and harmony. ...i want my Dream man to come to me and let start
New life together..i am ready to relocate .

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Seems like a perfectly nice (albeit repetitive) person, but not someone
I would ever have any interest in at all. And she would have known that
if she bothered to read my profile.

I wonder sometimes if these people are just sending dozens or hundreds
of these out, completely indiscriminately, to whoever they find on the
site....?

It sounds like some of the ones on a romance scam website I am a member
of anyway. They almost always repeat theirselves and say "am" instead
of I am. Sounds strange but its true. There alot of them jout there.
I was almost scammed until I found that website and I am glad I did Lex.
Very good subject!

"am very serious, i really need a very serious
relationship here with someone am gonna spend the rest of my life with
inpeace and harmony. ...i want my Dream man to come to me and let start
New life together..i am ready to relocate"

yea right

sounds like she needs to wakeup





party on...

Happens quite a bit, hasnt happened to me here. But usually I put up
the pic with the scar and an explanation of how it happened and when it
happened. Then come the emails asking how it happened.

I received a letter like that on another web site and made the mistake
of answering it. The guy seemed nice for the first week or two then
asked me to give him my address so I could help him cash money orders
that totalled over $2,000. I told him to take a hike and later found
out he did the same thing to other women on the site. Once bitten,
twice shy now.

foregoing email drox, but how did it happen?

Myspace is famous for the scammer emails, used to get them all the time
til I made my account private. Besides the am's, and the you are so
beautiful, I knew from the minute I saw your picture you were my soul
mate...there's the terrible broken engish. Dead give away!!!

OK, I must admit that it made me giggle. Like the part where she states
she is not getting any younger anymore. I mean was she at one point? If
so please message her and ask her what her secret is for me!

Then the part where she says "God Fearing" You are right there is no
possible way she could have read your profile. No possible way they
would of written that to an atheist.

and for the simple fact that you are NOT looking for a relationship just
proves it again right there.

Now I can continue to dissect this, but you and I both know, I know you
to well, and it could make for a kind of long response. But no I do not
think that they ever read profiles. I think they just copy and past them
to a whole swarm of people and then wait for replies.

I agree Whisper

I've never gotten anything like this (or the obvious Russians)on JSH.
VC & Mike seem to have been able to weed those out.

Right after I signed up on JSH, I DID get a message from a member here,
someone who lived very near to me, in fact, giving me way too much
information for a first email. Actually was a huge red flag to me, and
I never replied.

I have gotten just a few here. A great big red flag for me is when you
go to their page and they have been a member for like 3 months and they
have no friends and their about isn't filled out but they send you an
email and the information for their yahoo IM and email and asking for
yours! LOL DUH!

Just for you Cat






If you are reading this then it means I did not feel like taking the
time to hand write out a response for you, as you didnt feel like taking
the time to read my profile (I love the copy & paste feature).

It was a motorcycle accident back in 2002. I took off too fast in the
rain, and couldnt lean for the turn I had to make without laying the
bike down. I also couldnt slow in enough time so I had to pop a curb.
The scar is the only major result of the accident on me. The bike
recieved minor wounds as well basically just a scratched up exhaust.

got me there drox think I did read the profile
awhile back but forgot...forgive me...teh copy and paste feature is
great...but thanks for refreshing my memeory

I didn't get any of those emails today!

lol didnt have it in the profile before, it is on other sites. This one
only now mentions a accident doesnt really go into detail... That copy
and past is in a text file I keep on the desktop with other oddball
stuff.

Was just given ya some crap lol

I don't know how to copy and paste

np drox...love your hair in the pic you have posted

I get a fair number of random people trying to IM me on Yahoo (even when
I have it set to invisible) -- I look at their profiles, and it's almost
always somebody from another continent, and who has little or no
personal information shown. I just block those.

Really not a problem on JSH; I get plenty of emails, but almost always
from people I know and have interacted with on the forums. And very few
IMs but that might be because I can't seem to get it to work half the
time.

But the scammer/spammer/stalker/weirdo emails are something I just don't
have to worry about on JSH.

Just a brief addendum to the original post:

I checked the message again -- she claims to be from Orange Park,
Florida, and just joined the other site today!

Quick work there, darling.

Who knows HOW much you could accomplish "with a real man here" ?? But
it ain't gonna be me!

lex invisible works great if u do it all the time i never get
those anymmore