I WAS IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP I THOUGHT HE WAS "IT", HE WASN'T. I'VE
BEEN SINGLE NOW FOR ALMOST 3 YRS AND EVEN THOUGH I LOVE MY LIFE,WHERE
ARE ALL THE GUYS NOW? IT SEEMED WHEN I WAS HOOKED UP, GUYS WERE ALWAYS
ASKING ME OUT, BUT NOW THAT I'M SINGLE AGAIN, WHERE ARE THEY, I DON'T
KNOW ABOUT YOU OTHER LADIES, BUT THIS SEEMS TO ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME, I'M
NOT A CHEATER
I CAN ONLY HANDLE ONE HEADACHE AT A TIME(LOL)
SO, IS IT JUST ME? OR IS IT UNIVERSAL?
SIGHNED, CONFUSED IN MONTANA

Its not just you. My Ex's best friend seemed to show me way to much
attention while I was with the Ex and now, we rarely talk. However,
mention that I am thinking of going back he is again showing attention.
Why is it the friend only seems to want me when the Ex has me??? guys,
why is that???

Male or female want what they cant have. Guys like to feel manly. Now
you act like u want there attention. When I go out I add some male
perfume and it makes the other men think your unavilable. Its a game.
Man will want u more the harder it is. I hope no one takes this wrong.
Just dont act like u need um and they'll be there

How true that is. I see it now with the Ex. He sees the friend being
attentive and I know it makes him crazy. I am not stupid enough to go
back in time with the Ex, just enjoying the game.

it ain't completely true. if a women seems unavailable to me or is
really elusive i move on. playing hard to get has never worked on me and
i know plenty of other men who are the same but some men really do like
the chase.
i'm not sure why you get more attention when you are in a relationship
but i know what you mean. some people act differently when they are in a
relationship, they are more relaxed when around people and it makes them
more approachable.

I hear you loud and clear, and I don't have a good answer I have been
dumb before having a date, so you can imagine what such luck I been
having lately, a course my sister say that is because I only like to
date losers and that I am to nice and give all those losers a chance,
who knows maybe she is right.

Everytime I wear my wedding rings......I get hit on.......omg maybe thats the ticket!!

maybe its the fact that if they think your committed they dont have to worry about commitment ..you know how us guys hate commitment ...

ahhhhhhh yes........now I remember..........pffffffffft!!! throw them to the wolves!!!

Don't feel alone.Think it happens to most of us.

ooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwooooooooooooooooooooo
the hunt is on whats that i smell in the distance a wedding ring .....

<----puts on the tiara and the wedding dress........

This will get me lots of dates!!!