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Topic: Can you say you really loved them?
MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:45 PM
I can honestly say yes, with everything that I am. He just didn't see it.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 12/30/08 12:48 PM
Yes:smile:

Dredz_Hang_Low's photo
Tue 12/30/08 01:03 PM
im a believer that lust and desire are the beginnings of love so i wouldnt discount a relationship because i lust for someone (true lust! not that i did it because i could thing).

Also when you think back about the people you where involved with some stick out more than others and stay with you over time. those people i'd say you had the beginnings of love with as well, if not full on "in love".

That said i have had the beginnings of love with a few.
I can also say that i have been in love with one or two.

Hindsight isnt exactly 20/20 and over time you might think to yourself that wasnt love. Id say thats only because you definition of love from then to now has changed. Your needs now are different and if given the chance you may have done some things differently

the overall point is dont discount the love and emotions you had in the past. they are just as real now as they where then. to understand them is to grow from them.

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Tue 12/30/08 01:07 PM
I did, but both people that I dated I loved in different ways.
The first was the foolish, highschooler 'it's gonna last forever love' the second one was more reserved but was extremely hard for me to say didn't exist.

dirtfan10's photo
Wed 12/31/08 02:54 AM
Been married twice. First one was about sex and it was a disaster. There was never love in that relationship. The second was about friendship and enjoying life together. Yes it was all about love and I miss her daily.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 12/31/08 09:05 PM

Been married twice. First one was about sex and it was a disaster. There was never love in that relationship. The second was about friendship and enjoying life together. Yes it was all about love and I miss her daily.





:thumbsup:

alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 12/31/08 09:06 PM

Well sure.


Naw, I can't.

alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 12/31/08 09:06 PM


Well sure.


Naw, I can't.


Yeah, I can.

alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 12/31/08 09:06 PM



Well sure.


Naw, I can't.


Yeah, I can.


Naw, I can't.

dirtfan10's photo
Wed 12/31/08 09:16 PM
Thanks happy

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