So this guy has been running hot & cold on me for about a month now. At first whenever I would call him, he would tell me he was too tired for us to hook up. Just so happen we happened to be at the same party at the same time and he chased me the whole night. Needless to say we went back to my place afterwards and had great sex. So great he called me two days later and said let's do it again. We did. It was still good but he went limp this time.

However, I didn't hear from for a week. So I was feeling horny and decided to call him. I left a voicemail but he didn't call back. So I called again, no answer so I sent a text. Trying to be persuasive. Still no response so I called yet again, just in this one day, he finally answered and I told him that I wanted to hook up he said that he was at work, but would be off on Monday. So I said ok. Then after the convo, I texted him again and said that if he felt up to it after work he should come and see me. I haven't heard back from him yet.

My friend said, he probably thought I was psycho. Who calls somebody 3 times and leaves 3 messages in one day and they're not responding. What's psycho about that, I was just trying to get his attention. It's not like went into stalker mode and was calling back to back to back.

So now I'm scared that I've ruined my booty call with this guy because I was tryin to be too persuasive. I know not to ever call him again, until he calls me first, but I'm afraid now that he won't call at all. What should I expect?

wait for his call if he doesn't he's just not that into you hope it works out for you

You called me more than 3 times on my machine. And you texted me 4 times a bunch of dirty pornographic stuff. You're scaring me away.

limp?

Calling me and asking me where I left the used condom kinda wierded me out.

He probably won't call, but more likely 'cus he went limp. Not your issue.... but I'd say three calls is a bit much for a non-relationship.

I was thinking he was embarrassed by his limpness

And when you grabbed that 50 dollar bill off my dresser after the sex made me think that this wasn't gonna be a regular thing. Watching you put that 50 in your pocket made me go limp.

Oh wait! I don't know you! Wrong person! Sorry! Never mind.

He already thinks your a psycho stalker. Go all out and go Fatal Attraction on his ass.

Uh, um, ok. Good luck with that?

well have you thought that being easy and going to bed with him the first time. is what he just wanted

Interesting first post.

Winx... remember Dammitscloudy's hairy monkey love post?

This is too easy. This guy more than likely found someone else and is having great sex with her or he is feeling really self-concious about going limp and does not want it to happen again. If he has not found someone else then he will call eventually when he builds up the courage to do so and when he is really horny. (his hand will not work for him forever...he will want the real thing.) If he has found someone else then he may be trying to avoid contact with you until he has a chance to slip away from the other. Either way, if the sex was great for him then you should deffinitely be getting a call back. If you don't just ask me for my number and we can hook up LOL. Good Luck!!!

As a general rule, don't expect anything. Chances are that there's something else going on that would explain the communication black-out. Or the person could just be flaky as all hell.

This is kinda what I went through with an online date I had via another dating site (that will remain nameless). We agreed to a second date, and I called her up a day later to schedule. Didn't hear from her for about a week, and when she DID decide to respond, a date would be set, but she'd go on to flake out and stand me up.

After a couple of weeks of this, I told her I was a bit tired of her games, which resulted in her branding me a "wife-beater type". Her pencil-necked online friends also went so far as to call me "terrorist", as well.

So- in general- don't expect anything. If homeboy decides to call up, fine. If he doesn't, well... fine. Go out and find yourself someone else. Pullin' your hair over someone who is obviously an ADD-addled flake is simply not worth it in the least.

people make up fake profiles,never fill em out,

then ask dumb azz questions

No, I don't remember him doing that. Hairy monkey love post?

Yep, I noticed that the profile wasn't filled out.