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Topic: Rule Number 1
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Tue 12/30/08 04:45 AM


whats rule #2 ?


Rule Number 2
The first time someone lies to you, or steals from you, write them off, no exceptions.

Note: Accidentally running off with your Bic lighter does not constitute stealing.

Note: If they truely believed what they told you, then it technically wasn't a lie.

Fair warning. flowerforyou

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Tue 12/30/08 04:53 AM


I would never go back to a guy who abused me physically...
I just couldn't handle that.


But lots of women do... lets ponder the possibilities as to why here...
1. They love a good ass woopin
4. They love pain (there's a word for those folks)

huh

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Tue 12/30/08 06:58 PM


Mine was the fear of what he would have done to me once he caught me. Self esteem plays a big role in this decision as well.


I grew up seeing this all the time. That is why I taught my boys that they should never-ever under any circumstances hit a woman. If they want to hit someone, there are plenty of bars to find someone to do that with.

Didn't you know anyone that could do onto him as he would do onto you?

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Tue 12/30/08 07:01 PM



Mine was the fear of what he would have done to me once he caught me. Self esteem plays a big role in this decision as well.


I grew up seeing this all the time. That is why I taught my boys that they should never-ever under any circumstances hit a woman. If they want to hit someone, there are plenty of bars to find someone to do that with.

Didn't you know anyone that could do onto him as he would do onto you?


when you are in that kind of situation not everything is clear as a bell sometimes it takes awhile depending on the situation for things to sink in.

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Tue 12/30/08 07:06 PM




when you are in that kind of situation not everything is clear as a bell sometimes it takes awhile depending on the situation for things to sink in.


I have seen what you went thru. I feel for you. You are out of that now, right?

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Tue 12/30/08 07:07 PM





when you are in that kind of situation not everything is clear as a bell sometimes it takes awhile depending on the situation for things to sink in.


I have seen what you went thru. I feel for you. You are out of that now, right?


Hell yes, the brick finally hit my head 7 yrs ago and life has been a complete success since

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Tue 12/30/08 10:25 PM

If anyone ever raises a hand to you, write them off, don't look back, and move forward.




exactly

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Wed 12/31/08 01:09 AM




whats rule #2 ?


Never go back to someone who has betrayed you.noway noway noway


It's always puzzeled me how a woman can go back to a cheater or abuser.


Until you are actually put in that situation you can never fully understand. It is easy to sit back and say that you wouldn't put up with that but take it from someone that did, leaving sometimes is not an option or is scarier than staying.

I put up with it for too long because of religous and personal beliefs. It takes a really strong person to just leave and it took me 12 yrs to gain that strength


Congrats for finally making it over the wall.

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