Topic: I politely told this guy..
Giocamo's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:33 PM


just curiouse how old was he?


44.. 14 years older than I am.


you're only 30 years old ?...well...you don't look a day over 29...cross my heart...lol

Giocamo's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:33 PM


just curiouse how old was he?


44.. 14 years older than I am.


you're only 30 years old ?...well...you don't look a day over 29...cross my heart...lol

Redshirt's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:34 PM


just curiouse how old was he?


44.. 14 years older than I am.


Age is a strange thing...been told by some women the difference in age doesn't matter...by others that it does.

Figure it is up to individuals.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:35 PM

It's uncouth and rude for him to react that way, but it's not strange to see that much age difference between a couple.


He's definitely not the only one who has been offended. Some except anyone, no matter what their age is, to want to date them. I'm sure it's not uncommon to see people dating with that much of an age difference, but it's a personal preference. While I don't necessarily have a set age range for dating.. I find that with a bigger age gap, the less we'll have in common and the more likely we'll be at completely different points in our lives.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:36 PM



just curiouse how old was he?


44.. 14 years older than I am.


Age is a strange thing...been told by some women the difference in age doesn't matter...by others that it does.

Figure it is up to individuals.


Yep, definitely up to the individual.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:36 PM


that he was a bit too old for me to date. Apparently he got offended and said I was a shallow b1tch. I really don't understand the point of being offended if someone isn't interested in dating because of a big age difference.


I'm sorry. I just don't like hearing that I'm too old. flowers


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romeo1975's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:37 PM
i'd date you, since there is only 3yrs difference, but i think there is to many miles differece LOL

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Fri 12/26/08 08:39 PM

Yes, I agree. There are lots of angry people out there. And, if me saying I prefer to date someone a bit closer to my age was enough to set him off, I'd hate to see how angry he'd get about anything else.
Almost sounds like he has some control issues BTW you wants go out? bigsmile

Redshirt's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:41 PM
Have had younger women flirt with me...have to admit it was nice. But figure if there is a double digit difference in age that is too much. Kind of weird when a memory you have is history they studied. laugh laugh

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Fri 12/26/08 08:41 PM

i'd date you, since there is only 3yrs difference, but i think there is to many miles differece LOL


Aw, thanks :smile:.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:42 PM


Yes, I agree. There are lots of angry people out there. And, if me saying I prefer to date someone a bit closer to my age was enough to set him off, I'd hate to see how angry he'd get about anything else.
Almost sounds like he has some control issues BTW you wants go out? bigsmile


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AllenAqua's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:42 PM


It's uncouth and rude for him to react that way, but it's not strange to see that much age difference between a couple.


He's definitely not the only one who has been offended. Some except anyone, no matter what their age is, to want to date them. I'm sure it's not uncommon to see people dating with that much of an age difference, but it's a personal preference. While I don't necessarily have a set age range for dating.. I find that with a bigger age gap, the less we'll have in common and the more likely we'll be at completely different points in our lives.


Perfectly understandable. I wouldn't likely date someone that much older than me either.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:43 PM

Have had younger women flirt with me...have to admit it was nice. But figure if there is a double digit difference in age that is too much. Kind of weird when a memory you have is history they studied. laugh laugh


There are women who like men who are quite a bit older or younger than them. It becomes a problem when some men think ALL younger women should want to date them.

jdcolvin's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:45 PM
no one should get offended reguardless of why they dont want to date you and especially because of a big age difference....................

romeo1975's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:46 PM


Have had younger women flirt with me...have to admit it was nice. But figure if there is a double digit difference in age that is too much. Kind of weird when a memory you have is history they studied. laugh laugh


There are women who like men who are quite a bit older or younger than them. It becomes a problem when some men think ALL younger women should want to date them.
see i always attract the younger women myself, but we are talking way to young, like pedophile young, and that is way to dangerous being i want to have an education degree and future

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Fri 12/26/08 08:48 PM

no one should get offended reguardless of why they dont want to date you and especially because of a big age difference....................


Good to know that many people feel the same way!

Redshirt's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:49 PM


Have had younger women flirt with me...have to admit it was nice. But figure if there is a double digit difference in age that is too much. Kind of weird when a memory you have is history they studied. laugh laugh


There are women who like men who are quite a bit older or younger than them. It becomes a problem when some men think ALL younger women should want to date them.


Agree...but not just with men...but also women. No one is that great that everyone wants to go out with them. slaphead

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Fri 12/26/08 08:50 PM



Have had younger women flirt with me...have to admit it was nice. But figure if there is a double digit difference in age that is too much. Kind of weird when a memory you have is history they studied. laugh laugh


There are women who like men who are quite a bit older or younger than them. It becomes a problem when some men think ALL younger women should want to date them.


Agree...but not just with men...but also women. No one is that great that everyone wants to go out with them. slaphead


Oh, I know. I'm sure there are women who do the same thing.

verybrave's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:53 PM
Hey everybody im new here and lets be clear about this IM OLD LOL so ladies if I talk to ya and your really young, please dont be affended im just making friends.

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Fri 12/26/08 08:54 PM
But on the other hand if I was dating someone that much younger and it worked out, she could still be working after I retirelaugh laugh