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mesquitemade1 Joined Tue 11/04/08 Posts: 77	Fri 12/26/08 09:35 AM
I met a girl on-line, we've shared mail and seem to have made a friendship...I got cocky, and said a few things that were meant to be a flirt...am I dumb in asking her, or should I leave well enough alone and wait for an answer from her...what should I do

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 12/26/08 09:37 AM
I met a girl on-line, we've shared mail and seem to have made a friendship...I got cocky, and said a few things that were meant to be a flirt...am I dumb in asking her, or should I leave well enough alone and wait for an answer from her...what should I do Appologize to her.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Fri 12/26/08 09:40 AM
I say wait it out. Sometimes, "the more you stir the pot the worse it's gonna stink."

jdcolvin Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 508	Fri 12/26/08 09:43 AM
damage done --just wait and see...If you were friends she will contact you with atleast a --what the hell were you thinking response and maby she is just thinking it over --Its hard to say cause we dont know what you said or in what context it was said

Drew07_2 Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 716	Fri 12/26/08 09:44 AM
Ask her what, exactly? It sounds as though you already sent the "flirt" e-mail so I am not sure what you are asking us to give advice about. If you are afraid you offended her you might consider telling her you are sorry (if indeed you are) for getting cocky. It does not sound like she has told you to G-T-He** so who knows, it might be all good. A good friendship can withstand a great deal. Good luck.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Fri 12/26/08 09:50 AM
Ask her what, exactly? It sounds as though you already sent the "flirt" e-mail so I am not sure what you are asking us to give advice about. If you are afraid you offended her you might consider telling her you are sorry (if indeed you are) for getting cocky. It does not sound like she has told you to G-T-He** so who knows, it might be all good. A good friendship can withstand a great deal. Good luck. What he said to the T If you have noticed that it could have came out wrong then address it to her and explain yourself if truly sorry. Best of luck to you mesquite

mesquitemade1 Joined Tue 11/04/08 Posts: 77	Fri 12/26/08 09:51 AM
damage done --just wait and see...If you were friends she will contact you with atleast a --what the hell were you thinking response and maby she is just thinking it over --Its hard to say cause we dont know what you said or in what context it was said I appreciate the advice, I've apologized to her and I guess I just want too much too soon...but thank you all

DEN1313 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 12	Tue 12/30/08 05:47 PM
say your sorry and you didn't mean to hurt her feelings

evian001 Joined Fri 10/17/08 Posts: 1162	Tue 12/30/08 05:48 PM
I say wait it out. Sometimes, "the more you stir the pot the worse it's gonna stink." nice saying..

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Tue 12/30/08 05:49 PM
your screwed !

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 12/30/08 05:50 PM
I agree say your are sorry and let it go. The one thing I can tell you I am the type of person if someone comes on too strong in the first 1/2 a dozen emails I am backing off and going the other way. That might be some advice you can take and use the next time around or now if she gives you another chance. I am sorry you are hurting right now. Good luck

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Tue 12/30/08 05:56 PM
I met a girl on-line, we've shared mail and seem to have made a friendship...I got cocky, and said a few things that were meant to be a flirt...am I dumb in asking her, or should I leave well enough alone and wait for an answer from her...what should I do Say your sorry and see what happens. Problem with e-mails is sometime the way we type them is not the way we mean for it to come out. Best of luck.