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Topic: Got something to say
mmmike's photo
Fri 12/26/08 05:49 AM

Exactly.... you can't love another if you don't love yourself first.

I do disagree about a relationship though. No one completes me. I complete me. A true relationship would compliment me, enrich my life... make it more vivid. Makes sense?
ok ok but but I want to be right sometimes ha ha

lilith401's photo
Fri 12/26/08 05:52 AM
It's not at all about being right, it's really just a matter of perspective. Some folks really believe another person completes them. In that sense, they might view their lives as lacking without a romantic relationship. For me, I don't need anyone. I want someone.....

It's just a matter of how each person views the purpose of a relationship. There is not right or wrong. No black or white...

mmmike's photo
Fri 12/26/08 05:54 AM
your talk to a man just spent christmas day alone in his house alone I would have ben nice to have someone here my day would have been complete if i was not alone

lilith401's photo
Fri 12/26/08 05:57 AM
All I can say is that if you spent the day alone it was because you chose not to spend it with friends. A woman would not have completed that, IMO.

I chose to spend my Christmas with Lily0923. She spent a lot of time talking me through a problem and that gift was precious to me. We also saw a great movie and had dinner.

mmmike's photo
Fri 12/26/08 06:02 AM
One Just cant go into another famleys Christmas your an outsider. On Christmas everyone and there own famly.

mmmike's photo
Fri 12/26/08 06:04 AM

All I can say is that if you spent the day alone it was because you chose not to spend it with friends. A woman would not have completed that, IMO.

I chose to spend my Christmas with Lily0923. She spent a lot of time talking me through a problem and that gift was precious to me. We also saw a great movie and had dinner.
So why didnt you work out your own problem she help you mmm

lilith401's photo
Fri 12/26/08 06:06 AM
The spirit of Christmas is giving. People would have welcomed you in...

No person is an island. We all need others, the ones with whom we are close, to help us see what is right there in front of us. I did work out my own problem.... by telling her it existed and asking for help.

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