Topic: UGH! "Helpful" People...
sniker0721's photo
Thu 12/25/08 11:03 PM
dating site doctor phils crack my ass up it seems as if the have nothing to do but to say **** to put people down just because their lives are ****ty so they one everyone else's to be ****ty!!

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Thu 12/25/08 11:05 PM
It's not that you hate helpful people


it's that you hate that the helpful people are telling you something you already know.

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Thu 12/25/08 11:05 PM



Why are so many, so willing to offer unsolicited advice?

I KNOW I'm pushing 50...& I still like my hair long...

I like my profile JUST THE WAY IT IS...please stop sending me your "helpful" suggestions...

Blah, blah, BLAH! grumble
don't you just wish men would be like the song "i love you just the way you are"by Billy Joel
i still think my answer is better:smile:



FINE! It's the BEST answer...EVER! You romantic mush-ball! Can I be sick, now?bigsmile

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Thu 12/25/08 11:07 PM

It's not that you hate helpful people


it's that you hate that the helpful people are telling you something you already know.



You think I should cut my hair, GSB? Waaaaaaa! NEVER!

sniker0721's photo
Thu 12/25/08 11:08 PM
are you really 50?

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Thu 12/25/08 11:08 PM




Why are so many, so willing to offer unsolicited advice?

I KNOW I'm pushing 50...& I still like my hair long...

I like my profile JUST THE WAY IT IS...please stop sending me your "helpful" suggestions...

Blah, blah, BLAH! grumble
don't you just wish men would be like the song "i love you just the way you are"by Billy Joel
i still think my answer is better:smile:
you can be what ever you desiredrinker


FINE! It's the BEST answer...EVER! You romantic mush-ball! Can I be sick, now?bigsmile

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Thu 12/25/08 11:21 PM
If someone asks for a profile review or a specific forum question then I figure they get what they get but if you don't ask for someone to comment it seems really rude to make personal remarks about someones personal stuff.

I generally take un aske for advice the same way I do un solicted phone calls I ignore them.

I don't know what it is when you have long hair past a certain age but it seems like there is a lot of pressure to have it cut. I am so Sorry I let someone talk me into cutting mine. It is so much harder dealing with short hair and I miss my pretty things I used to wear in my hair. Now I have to suffer through growing it back out but when I do I will never cut it again.

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Thu 12/25/08 11:29 PM
I see in your pix, Pacific that you had gorgeous long hair...NEVER let anyone convince you to cut it, again!

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Fri 12/26/08 12:20 AM
Out of curiosity, what have they been "helping" you with. I would give anything to have hair like that and I would keep it long too.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:25 AM


It's not that you hate helpful people


it's that you hate that the helpful people are telling you something you already know.



You think I should cut my hair, GSB? Waaaaaaa! NEVER!




Addendum


it's that you hate that the helpful people are telling you something you already know and have already contemplated and discarded as reasonable.

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Fri 12/26/08 09:40 AM
Ah! I see! Thanks for the clarification, GSB...duly noted.

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Fri 12/26/08 09:47 AM
my favorite response is [ If I wanted any chit from you I would squeeze it out of you}

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Fri 12/26/08 09:49 AM
Phu --dont change a thing....

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Fri 12/26/08 09:53 AM
Note to self- don't date overly excitable people.

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Fri 12/26/08 09:56 AM
I like "If I wanted any lip out of you, I'd pull down your pants".

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Fri 12/26/08 09:58 AM
I thought of that but I thought that was flirting

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Fri 12/26/08 10:00 AM

I thought of that but I thought that was flirting



Ah, JD...is it any worse than what you say to me in private? Hehehe! tongue2

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Fri 12/26/08 10:00 AM
There are always going to be people who feel the need to offer everyone advice, whether it's wanted or not. Then there are those who get mad or upset when you don't take their unwanted advice! laugh

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Fri 12/26/08 10:05 AM
Ive been outed-----A private perv on the loose

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Fri 12/26/08 10:13 AM
I don't get unsolicited advice. I think people are scared I might find them and beat them to death, then eat them or something. Ha ha ha! No really, I'm a nice guy. Besides, people taste icky from all that garbage they eat.