feel like you are a magnet that attracts losers?

no

you got lucky

very

why did i buy all these little cars i have to invidually wrap?????????

lol

No, but I feel like I draw people that have suffered in horrible ways to me. It's an honor and not a burden for me.

thats wonderful that you see things that way.I plan on finding something I can vulunteer to do this year

these mega horns might not been a good idea

If you reverse the equation...

...instead of a magnet that attracts losers
...a loser that is attracted to magnetic persons is quite common. Just ask any magnetic person.

So, in that sense, aren't most of us attracted to persons of charisma/magnetism whom may not find us quite their ideal?
Yet the magnetism is often a collection of mannerisms and style and the savoir faire. Which you possess, too.

I think that we do not understand the types or levels of esteem/desire which we attract, yet it is there, waiting for our encouragement to bloom into fuller expression.

NO