met a girl a few months back , acted very attracted to me told me she had a gf too. recently she had been talkin to me alot over the phone like every day bein so sweet n loving to me. then yesterday xmas eve i met her and extremly fat girl friend at a pet store she came up to me sayin hey baby huged me , thought wow maybe found some one that actually likes me then we walked around holdin hands as her gf walked beside us sayin how she wanted to go home, but then we walked into a walmart she picked up a stuffed ehur doll and they grabed abunch of candy. as i went to the check out line i allready figured out what was going about 1 hour ago just desperate for some social interaction i guess, but when i handed the cashier a $20 i think even she was laughing at me i look over at my "GIRL" snickering with her gf say ill just tell Mom some tandom kid bought me all this. they grab the bags start walkin out i ask her if she had a Ride home cause it was raining out all she said was ya we are leaving now text me ,

then she huged me . i walked away knowing what i had done was soo extremly stupid. she then texted me " I think we need to breakup dont b mad @ me." I Texted her said "dont talk to me user" she then told me that she can arrange, i then proceeded to insulting her and friend then asked why she didnt just act longer then i coulda spent more money on her " I got no reply gave my sisters bf his phone back he was pissed when he saw the messages so iguess he has been arguing on the phone with her but i dont want him to , it was all really due to me being a idoit cant say iam mad @ her she won she got what lill she wanted and i basically 4 a fake date one way of seein it i guess. i just have alot of trust issues now how can a girl fake you so long for $20 was it worth it? maybe iam not ready 4 any one in my life yet i dont drive dont have a job right now...and btw screw xmas

this ****s prolly never happend to any one b4 i am the only one dumb enough to see whats going and doit any way.

not even the money that bothers me mirror its me wondering if i am actually attractive at all or if i am walkin around lookin like iam slow or have sucker written on my forehead , i mean wth she did all this acting just i dunno how any one would be so sinnacle the only thing i said rude was so your basically leavin after this huh? then i paid.

Calm down!!! Your not stupid and it has happened to millions of men!!!!!

Now, quit being so hard on yourself and LEARN from your mistakes!!!

i guess i just dont understand why someone would do something to me like that when all i was was nice to them.

i guess i just dont understand why someone would do something to me like that when all i was was nice to them.

Being nice doesnt always equate buying something. You had expectations in your mind. You thought if you bought her something she would like you.

i actually kinda saw it coming i dunno guess i am thankful i atleast got a hug how ever heartless it was.

Well, like I said, anytime you meet a chick you are probably gonna need to spend some cash. Thats just how it is.Dont expect anything because of that.Thats just how the game is played.This will probably be the only chick you meet who will be this blatant about it.

seriously money dosent bother me just the fact she never ment what she said to me reevaluting myself now .

A woman can lie just as well as a man can lie.