met a girl a few months back , acted very attracted to me told me she had a gf too. recently she had been talkin to me alot over the phone like every day bein so sweet n loving to me. then yesterday xmas eve i met her and extremly fat girl friend at a pet store she came up to me sayin hey baby huged me , thought wow maybe found some one that actually likes me then we walked around holdin hands as her gf walked beside us sayin how she wanted to go home, but then we walked into a walmart she picked up a stuffed ehur doll and they grabed abunch of candy. as i went to the check out line i allready figured out what was going about 1 hour ago just desperate for some social interaction i guess, but when i handed the cashier a $20 i think even she was laughing at me i look over at my "GIRL" snickering with her gf say ill just tell Mom some tandom kid bought me all this. they grab the bags start walkin out i ask her if she had a Ride home cause it was raining out all she said was ya we are leaving now text me ,

So your saying that she played you? Man that sux Sorry to hear that.

chalk it up to experience and quit buying things for women you barely know.

then she huged me . i walked away knowing what i had done was soo extremly stupid. she then texted me " I think we need to breakup dont b mad @ me." I Texted her said "dont talk to me user" she then told me that she can arrange, i then proceeded to insulting her and friend then asked why she didnt just act longer then i coulda spent more money on her " I got no reply gave my sisters bf his phone back he was pissed when he saw the messages so iguess he has been arguing on the phone with her but i dont want him to , it was all really due to me being a idoit cant say iam mad @ her she won she got what lill she wanted and i basically 4 a fake date one way of seein it i guess. i just have alot of trust issues now how can a girl fake you so long for $20 was it worth it? maybe iam not ready 4 any one in my life yet i dont drive dont have a job right now...and btw screw xmas

Well, anytime you take a chick out or go to meet a chick your probably gonna have to spend some cash.$20 isnt that bad to lose on a chick for a one time meeting.Try to buy lunch or something next time so at least you can get something for your money (food). Its kinda rude for a chick to just grab something in a store and expect you to buy it. I think most chicks are more mature than that and wouldnt try that s**t. Dont sweat it bro.Just consider this a learning experience. At least it was just $20 and not $100 or something like that.

not even the money that bothers me mirror its me wondering if i am actually attractive at all or if i am walkin around lookin like iam slow or have sucker written on my forehead , i mean wth she did all this acting just i dunno how any one would be so sinnacle the only thing i said rude was so your basically leavin after this huh? then i paid.

this ****s prolly never happend to any one b4 i am the only one dumb enough to see whats going and doit any way.

naw man it happens to other people. Dont sweat it.

Calm down!!! Your not stupid and it has happened to millions of men!!!!!

Now, quit being so hard on yourself and LEARN from your mistakes!!!

Just relax dude. Most girls arnt like that I promise you

i guess i just dont understand why someone would do something to me like that when all i was was nice to them.

Probably some kind of dare that she had with her friend or something. Chicks get dumped on by dudes all the time but occasionally a chick will dump on a dude. Its disapointing but the vast majority of chicks wont pull this stuff on a guy because they are too scared ,or they are too goodhearted.

Being nice doesnt always equate buying something. You had expectations in your mind. You thought if you bought her something she would like you.

i actually kinda saw it coming i dunno guess i am thankful i atleast got a hug how ever heartless it was.

Well, like I said, anytime you meet a chick you are probably gonna need to spend some cash. Thats just how it is.Dont expect anything because of that.Thats just how the game is played.This will probably be the only chick you meet who will be this blatant about it. Most of them dont do this stuff (on purpose)

na your not stupid.


that has happened to to many.that be woman/or men

Your not unlovable. You WILL meet a girl who likes you eventually. Everyone does. Just dont let this cause you to take this out on the next girl you meet because she probably wont be that way.

Sorry the gal had the nerve to be so rude. A lady would not conduct herself like that so you would have been well with in your rights to refuse to pay for anything that was not for you. Either she would come up with her own cash or the clerk would not turn over the merchandise. Chalk it up to experience. Be glad she didn't get caught shop lifting...Hope Santa brings you a good girl.