Topic: When have you been let down by someone you trusted?
special_guy's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:05 PM



It's been a while for me because after the last time it happened, I learned not to depend on anyone but me so I don't get let down anymore.

I got into this pattern and it keeps out the good apples, too. So, absolutes aren't the answer. It prevents intimacy and genuineness.


you can only gather fruit if you go out on a limb (or you can pick up all the rotten oneson the ground whichever lol)



pick me!!! pick me!!!

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Tue 12/23/08 07:13 PM
July 17th 2008, 6 days before our sons 19th birthday. My Husband moved out of our house an in with another woman he'd been having an affair with since Feb. We had been together for 20yrs. And he didn't even let me know he had our son tell me. Much more but thats bad enough.

But hoping for better things in the new year!!

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Tue 12/23/08 07:15 PM
ABOUT A MONH AGO:angry:

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Tue 12/23/08 07:16 PM
it's a regular occurance

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Tue 12/23/08 07:31 PM
May 14, 2008- Wife of 12 years sent me an email, said "My life would be easier without you here"frustrated

Totage's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:32 PM

what When have you been let down by someone you trusted?what


Every time I trust them. grumble

sweetiepieblu's photo
Tue 12/23/08 07:40 PM
Today.. a man that worked his way into my soul. Qouted "trust me" one to many times. I did, only long enough to let down my guard and trust them... then he called it quits today.. 2 days before Christmas.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 09:40 PM

Today.. a man that worked his way into my soul. Qouted "trust me" one to many times. I did, only long enough to let down my guard and trust them... then he called it quits today.. 2 days before Christmas.
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

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Wed 12/24/08 03:10 PM
hmmm let's see..... what time is it???

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 12/24/08 03:26 PM

Three months ago wife of 17 years walks in and
says i,m not happy anymore and walks out.I was
very happy and did not see it coming...am having trouble crawling from the wreckage.has anyone out
there survived this with any quality of life left
and do you know any magic words?


Same thing happened recently after 11 years. No words of wisdom only keep putting one foot in front of the other. And remember you are worth it.

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Wed 12/24/08 03:36 PM
Any time I ever loved or trusted someone.....

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Wed 12/24/08 03:37 PM


august 2007... she picked her daughter over "us" frustrated



well her child was there before you. so i would had done the same

my mom had a choice between a guy she loved and her children and the guy got kicked to the curb... besides that my sisters and i didnt care for him

he couldnt accept me or my sisters and he had 2 kids of his own that he didnt know how to deal with
sure you say that but you don't know the facts... her daughter is a total junkie. and she let her move in for a second time...and again her daughter burned her with trust drugs etc the lady lost her home had protection order against her daughetr after that.. and I s et there scratching my head.. yes I still here from her on occassion.... regrets etc on her part... yada yada yada but whats done is done she saw it coming and yet ....

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Thu 12/25/08 01:33 AM

Any time I ever loved or trusted someone.....

I think you and I both need a mentor or mentor(s) in this area!

I'm taking nominations for same! Females only for me, please. flowerforyou

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Thu 12/25/08 01:38 AM



It's been a while for me because after the last time it happened, I learned not to depend on anyone but me so I don't get let down anymore.

I got into this pattern and it keeps out the good apples, too. So, absolutes aren't the answer. It prevents intimacy and genuineness.


you can only gather fruit if you go out on a limb (or you can pick up all the rotten oneson the ground whichever lol)

Truer words were never spoken to me. I need a mentor, I tell ya'. lol

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Thu 12/25/08 01:39 AM




It's been a while for me because after the last time it happened, I learned not to depend on anyone but me so I don't get let down anymore.

I got into this pattern and it keeps out the good apples, too. So, absolutes aren't the answer. It prevents intimacy and genuineness.


you can only gather fruit if you go out on a limb (or you can pick up all the rotten oneson the ground whichever lol)



pick me!!! pick me!!!

:laughing:

onceuponatijm's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:41 AM

Every time I ever trusted anyone. Patterns.





trust is a set up from the get go

jdcolvin's photo
Thu 12/25/08 01:51 AM
the last time I trusted someone

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 12/25/08 02:50 PM

the last time I trusted someone
laugh

whatshisface's photo
Thu 12/25/08 05:23 PM
All fkin day today

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/26/08 09:04 PM

All fkin day today





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