Topic: How long should one wait to introduce their lover?
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 06:59 PM
flowerforyou How long should one wait to introduce their lover to their family?flowerforyou

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Fri 12/19/08 07:01 PM
25 yearslaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

misstina2's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:01 PM
lol after we are married lol

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Fri 12/19/08 07:02 PM
Edited by SeriouslyJustSayHi on Fri 12/19/08 07:08 PM
I would hope to meet a friend to two before I became someones lover. And I would want my friends to meet someone I was dating before they became my lover also.
Family, well it depends on whom, and what type of relationship you have with that family member.

alonenotlonely's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:02 PM
Mirror, that sounds kinda . . . gayish.

And you mean you're not already related to your lover?

Man, I gotta get outta the deep south!

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:05 PM

flowerforyou How long should one wait to introduce their lover to their family?flowerforyou


You read my mind. I was getting ready to post this exact same question. But I was going to be more specific and say your/his kids. We each have two. Mine are 19 and 16, his are 17 and 13. My children have met only two men that I dated in the last 10 years. But I like this guy so much, that I am ready for him to meet the kids.


SamaraNJ's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:06 PM
Can't put a specific time on it.. depends on the person... It has been extremely rare that someone meets my family.. No one has been around long enough recently to get that far...

SamaraNJ's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:09 PM


flowerforyou How long should one wait to introduce their lover to their family?flowerforyou


You read my mind. I was getting ready to post this exact same question. But I was going to be more specific and say your/his kids. We each have two. Mine are 19 and 16, his are 17 and 13. My children have met only two men that I dated in the last 10 years. But I like this guy so much, that I am ready for him to meet the kids.



It takes a lot more trust and thought to meet the kids.. I think twice about dating a man if he is quick to introduce me to his kids.. to me it seems as if he doesn't put much thought into it.. I don't bring men around my nieces and nephews, I don't think it's healthy for them to see me with different people all the time that are just going to be in my life for a short time...

darkowl1's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:09 PM
no family, no worriesdrinker drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:14 PM

Mirror, that sounds kinda . . . gayish.

And you mean you're not already related to your lover?

Man, I gotta get outta the deep south!
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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:15 PM

lol after we are married lol
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chickayoshi's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:22 PM
Well the family is going to meet the lover sooner or later...might as well get it over with. :laughing:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:29 PM

Well the family is going to meet the lover sooner or later...might as well get it over with. :laughing:
flowerforyou good pointflowerforyou

alonenotlonely's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:32 PM
MM, do you have a "post" book? Did Lex publish it? Can I get a copy if I send $49.95 non-refundable donation?