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Topic: men in their 40's?
elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Wed 12/17/08 06:21 AM
I just turned 44, and haven't dated a woman more than 3 or 4 years younger than me. Ever. Laura is.. Well.. I'm not gonna say how old, but if you know her, you know how old she is..

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Wed 12/17/08 09:55 AM
Men my age eyeing much younger women! I cant give it away! That's not a midlife crisis - that is just most males. Glad I don't fit into that "most" category.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Wed 12/17/08 09:57 AM Edited by quiet_2008 on Wed 12/17/08 09:57 AM
I started my midlife crisis when I was 17 I'll let you know when it's over

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 12/17/08 09:58 AM
I had mine in my thirties...must mean I won' make to 80..... Are all men in their 40's having a mid~life crisis?!

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Wed 12/17/08 10:04 AM
MINE START A 5 AND HAS NOT STOP YET........

DragonFlyTat Joined Fri 08/29/08 Posts: 3759	Wed 12/17/08 11:48 AM
my man is 44 and loves me to death...has been riding motorcycles since he was 15 and still loves to go on long rides with me...he is a good man and I love him

special_guy Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 6513	Wed 12/17/08 11:53 AM
Are all men in their 40's having a mid~life crisis?! Is having another childhood the same as having a mid~life crisis? If so I think I'm on my 3rd and it happens about every 10 years or so

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Wed 12/17/08 12:17 PM
OK WE ALL LIKE GO TO HOOTERS......

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Wed 12/17/08 12:31 PM
nope, im kewl....

DRUGSTORE Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 359	Wed 12/17/08 06:11 PM
Are all men in their 40's having a mid~life crisis?! not me,i'm only 38

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Wed 12/17/08 06:14 PM
Men my age eyeing much younger women! I cant give it away! That's not a midlife crisis - that is just most males. Glad I don't fit into that "most" category.

DRUGSTORE Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 359	Wed 12/17/08 06:16 PM
Men my age eyeing much younger women! I cant give it away! That's not a midlife crisis - that is just most males. Glad I don't fit into that "most" category. cool!!!

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Thu 12/18/08 06:27 AM
Cool? How so?

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 12/18/08 10:03 AM
i think guys pretty much start their mid-life crisis around age 14 but they are pretty much done with it by 85 or so... unless they get their hands on a bag a viagra

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Thu 12/18/08 10:13 AM
It's all relative to each individuals. At a certain age if you look at your life and are not happy or it ain't what you expected some will flip and try to do what they think they should be doing at that age. Is that a "middle life crisis" maybe but me I would call it more a "Search for your place" we just want to know that who we are and what we are suppose to be and for some that is never enough so they want things that they think they should be doing because of a preconceive image they had. At 45 I'm suppose to have a wife good kids a house a great job and whatever else but then we get there and even if we have it all it's still not enough. I don't think I had a middle life crisis, yes I did wonder sometimes why i was where I was but that's just a question I asked myself not a crisis. A crisis is when you don't know if you'll eat tomorrow or survive the cold of winter because you are homeless or your being abused by people that are suppose to take care of you or that your fighting for your life cause of illness those are crisis not a man in good health wondering is place in this world.

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Thu 12/18/08 11:05 AM
IN IRAQE THEY THROW SHOES..............ITS A MUSSLIM MIDLIFE CRISIS...... WHAT DO EXPECT WITH FOUR WIVES...........

European_Dan Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 1	Fri 12/19/08 03:30 AM
sure they do :-) In my case it was the Big toy for big boy syndrom; well let's call it a Porsche :-)

mari103 Joined Sat 09/06/08 Posts: 42	Fri 12/19/08 07:50 AM
Men my age eyeing much younger women! I cant give it away! Men of any age do ,so do Women

mari103 Joined Sat 09/06/08 Posts: 42	Fri 12/19/08 08:01 AM
It's all relative to each individuals. At a certain age if you look at your life and are not happy or it ain't what you expected some will flip and try to do what they think they should be doing at that age. Is that a "middle life crisis" maybe but me I would call it more a "Search for your place" we just want to know that who we are and what we are suppose to be and for some that is never enough so they want things that they think they should be doing because of a preconceive image they had. At 45 I'm suppose to have a wife good kids a house a great job and whatever else but then we get there and even if we have it all it's still not enough. I don't think I had a middle life crisis, yes I did wonder sometimes why i was where I was but that's just a question I asked myself not a crisis. A crisis is when you don't know if you'll eat tomorrow or survive the cold of winter because you are homeless or your being abused by people that are suppose to take care of you or that your fighting for your life cause of illness those are crisis not a man in good health wondering is place in this world. Thank you,not everything in life is a crisis.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Fri 12/19/08 09:22 AM
I think it has to do with looking at our lives and saying wow I thought I would be different when I got to this age, so wither we are looking for someone (younger) who can give us the children we didn't have or to make us feel younger after having facing down the double barrel of a thirty year mortgage, with ungrateful spouses and children. Or something like that.