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Topic: Would you like to know your partner's .....???
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Tue 12/16/08 10:33 AM
Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

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Tue 12/16/08 10:34 AM
nope

none of my business what she did before me

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Tue 12/16/08 10:35 AM

Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

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Tue 12/16/08 10:36 AM

nope

none of my business what she did before me

agree.But why to lie???

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Tue 12/16/08 10:38 AM


Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.

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Tue 12/16/08 10:45 AM



Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.


What's the need to know every detail about their past?

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Tue 12/16/08 10:47 AM




Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.


What's the need to know every detail about their past?


agree. but why to hide, when asked. Why cant it be transparent...When relation goes little sour..these points act as a catalyst..

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Tue 12/16/08 10:57 AM
Nope past is past

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Tue 12/16/08 11:02 AM





Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.


What's the need to know every detail about their past?


agree. but why to hide, when asked. Why cant it be transparent...When relation goes little sour..these points act as a catalyst..


If someone is hiding things from you that you've specifically asked about, that's something you need to work out with them.

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Tue 12/16/08 11:07 AM






Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.


What's the need to know every detail about their past?


agree. but why to hide, when asked. Why cant it be transparent...When relation goes little sour..these points act as a catalyst..


If someone is hiding things from you that you've specifically asked about, that's something you need to work out with them.

it is a generally discussion. Not pertaining to a single person.

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Tue 12/16/08 11:08 AM
This whole line of discussion is creepy in general. noway

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Tue 12/16/08 11:09 AM

This whole line of discussion is creepy in general. noway


d'accord

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Tue 12/16/08 11:09 AM





Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???

Don't really care as long as the STD test is clean, who cares, LMAO!

sex is another aspect...The thing is why cant you be open if you really love him/her.


What's the need to know every detail about their past?


agree. but why to hide, when asked. Why cant it be transparent...When relation goes little sour..these points act as a catalyst..

If not discussed because it doesn't matter then no opening to lie about it, but a cause could be embarrassment, not to be put forth in the publics eye, worrying about others finding out what you have said............but since I am not the person, I would not know the persons motivations.

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Tue 12/16/08 11:22 AM

Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???


I hope you meant "live in" and not "living".
Although her past relationships would be none of my business, all that information usually comes out in the first day or so of getting to know each other. If it took a year of being together before she told you about her past relationships, there's something wrong in my opinion. Dennis

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Tue 12/16/08 11:25 AM


Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???


I hope you meant "live in" and not "living".
Although her past relationships would be none of my business, all that information usually comes out in the first day or so of getting to know each other. If it took a year of being together before she told you about her past relationships, there's something wrong in my opinion. Dennis

yes right. Thanks for correcting me sir.:smile:

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Tue 12/16/08 11:26 AM

This whole line of discussion is creepy in general. noway

thanks.
your views has been recieved.

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Tue 12/16/08 11:30 AM


Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???


I hope you meant "live in" and not "living".
Although her past relationships would be none of my business, all that information usually comes out in the first day or so of getting to know each other. If it took a year of being together before she told you about her past relationships, there's something wrong in my opinion. Dennis


Do they have a bearing on the present? Maybe they are times in their life that they are less than proud of. Maybe who they were then isn't who they are now and don't want past actions that have nothing to do with present company to "distort" opinion. There are many resons not to disclose some information.I would recommend not asking ?'s that there may be chance you won't like answers too, especially if they don't have a direct effect on the present.

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Tue 12/16/08 11:39 AM



Would you like to know about your partner's previous love life??
Imagine,after one year of relationship your partner discloses that she/he had 3 living relationships before you..what is the point in hiding despite being asked by you specifically in the begining itself ??? How would you take this???


I hope you meant "live in" and not "living".
Although her past relationships would be none of my business, all that information usually comes out in the first day or so of getting to know each other. If it took a year of being together before she told you about her past relationships, there's something wrong in my opinion. Dennis


Do they have a bearing on the present? Maybe they are times in their life that they are less than proud of. Maybe who they were then isn't who they are now and don't want past actions that have nothing to do with present company to "distort" opinion. There are many resons not to disclose some information.I would recommend not asking ?'s that there may be chance you won't like answers too, especially if they don't have a direct effect on the present.

Now thats a good perspective..flowerforyou

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Tue 12/16/08 12:28 PM


it is a generally discussion. Not pertaining to a single person.


No one was talking about hiding anything.

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Tue 12/16/08 12:34 PM



it is a generally discussion. Not pertaining to a single person.


No one was talking about hiding anything.

trying to touch every aspects..

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