Topic: what should i do pt 2
dbad111's photo
Mon 12/15/08 12:51 PM
very good points
and to those who said i shouldnt jump in right away


this girl i was supposed to marry
after we broke up 2 days later she finds a new person


so im really glad i didnt marry her in the long run it would of been really hard knowing what she could be doing

SimplyElla's photo
Mon 12/15/08 12:54 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Mon 12/15/08 12:56 PM
So whats your question?

And yes it is best that you realized her true feelings for you now... bummer still

dbad111's photo
Mon 12/15/08 12:56 PM

So whats your question?

And yes it is best you in the long run you realize her true feelings for you now... bummer still



if you look at the first post the question is i have 22 days left in ohio then i move to missouri for the army for 5 months


im in a coed boot camp and ait
should i look here or wait to find a girl

rlynne's photo
Mon 12/15/08 12:58 PM
I have allot of friends married to the military, there are those who have no discretion about what they do while their man is away, there are soldiers who actually use that to their advantage, and are key to ask if a girl's husband is home or deployed...it is difficult to be away from the person you love...it does not excuse digressions of that sort, don't look for anything serious you are starting a whole new life enjoy it

SimplyElla's photo
Mon 12/15/08 12:59 PM
why go looking for a girl at all...
why not stay single and just date here and there...
obviously you are fine with the break up like she is to be able to look for some one else as well... correct...
pretty sure they would frown on you having relations with some one in the boot camp anyhow..

dbad111's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:02 PM

why go looking for a girl at all...
why not stay single and just date here and there...
obviously you are fine with the break up like she is to be able to look for some one else as well... correct...
pretty sure they would frown on you having relations with some one in the boot camp anyhow..



actually plenty of people are getting married i know to people they know from basic training


and no im not fine with break up im heart broken but she was playing the field with me and him both keeping me around


so in the end i ended it for good and she was like noo dont do this to me
i went on a date last night and she was like today shes a skank she makes me jealous were not together but you shouldnt be with any one else

well if you go out on a date with a guy and you go to his house every day why cant i do the same

and shes not a skank shes 18 and hasnt had sex

olskooldave's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:02 PM
spread it all aroun town then when u come back home u will have alot of large (pregnant) womern chasin u around. no wait go 2 redtube.com

dbad111's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:03 PM

I have allot of friends married to the military, there are those who have no discretion about what they do while their man is away, there are soldiers who actually use that to their advantage, and are key to ask if a girl's husband is home or deployed...it is difficult to be away from the person you love...it does not excuse digressions of that sort, don't look for anything serious you are starting a whole new life enjoy it


how did u get your eyes to do that in your picture
its actually pretty cool and grabs my attention haha

dbad111's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:03 PM

spread it all aroun town then when u come back home u will have alot of large (pregnant) womern chasin u around. no wait go 2 redtube.com



hahaha funny funny man

SimplyElla's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:08 PM


why go looking for a girl at all...
why not stay single and just date here and there...
obviously you are fine with the break up like she is to be able to look for some one else as well... correct...
pretty sure they would frown on you having relations with some one in the boot camp anyhow..



actually plenty of people are getting married i know to people they know from basic training

and no im not fine with break up im heart broken but she was playing the field with me and him both keeping me around

so in the end i ended it for good and she was like noo dont do this to me
i went on a date last night and she was like today shes a skank she makes me jealous were not together but you shouldnt be with any one else

well if you go out on a date with a guy and you go to his house every day why cant i do the same

and shes not a skank shes 18 and hasnt had sex


SKANK.. means unattractive woman anyhow so she can be one if a virgin or not...

if you are not fine with with the break up and heartbroken why even be dating anyone anyhow..

just because you two broke up and she is with another does not mean you have to be too... that only goes to show that you stoop down to her level...

if you all had broken up what business do any of you how to be talking about anything right now... either your broken up or not... tell her to move on with her business and that you will do the same...

you are young and about to start a whole new chapter in your life... do it with out drama and anger...

rlynne's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:09 PM


I have allot of friends married to the military, there are those who have no discretion about what they do while their man is away, there are soldiers who actually use that to their advantage, and are key to ask if a girl's husband is home or deployed...it is difficult to be away from the person you love...it does not excuse digressions of that sort, don't look for anything serious you are starting a whole new life enjoy it


how did u get your eyes to do that in your picture
its actually pretty cool and grabs my attention haha

k my eyes really are that color, sorry, you close out/off the iris area of the photo and apply grayscale to the rest of it

SimplyElla's photo
Mon 12/15/08 01:09 PM

go 2 redtube.com



surprised ill

er i guess if it helps you can do that too... ha ha ha