Topic: what do you say to your better half when they louse a family
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Sat 04/14/07 09:00 AM
just wonder how to help my boyfriend he just lost his grampie to canser.
hes fealy down but wont say and i realy want to be there for him what do
i do???

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Sat 04/14/07 09:14 AM
Well, I think you said it. Just be there for him and comfort him. Hope
all goes well for you.

flowerforyou

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Sat 04/14/07 09:15 AM
The loss of a loved one is hard, and at times we dont
know how to express our sadness or no how to grieve
when he is ready he will talk until then be thier by his
side, this will show him the love you have and that you
are thier for him when he needs you to be flowerforyou

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Sat 04/14/07 09:30 AM
thank you all i do love him but we have only know each other for a
couple months and just meat 3 weeks ago. yes we meat on line. hes so
good to me i just want him to know i care i have never meat a guy like
him befor so i hope that this time it last for ever.

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Sat 04/14/07 09:30 AM
thank you all i do love him but we have only know each other for a
couple months and just meat 3 weeks ago. yes we meat on line. hes so
good to me i just want him to know i care i have never meat a guy like
him befor so i hope that this time it last for ever.

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Sat 04/14/07 10:04 AM
Like they said, just let him know you are there when he is ready to talk
about it. He may be hurting too much now to know how to put it into
words. When I lost my grandpa, he was my best friend, I was alone, and
took me months to be able to talk about it to anyone. Just be there for
him and when he is ready he will be able to talk about it. He is lucky
he has you. Take care.

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Sat 04/14/07 10:15 AM
I think just let him have some peace with his own thoughts, and be nice
to him in the interim.

bigpappa4331's photo
Sat 04/14/07 10:21 AM
veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrry nice !!!!!! massage , cuddle , smile
directly at HIM !!!!!! you get the idea?

shenadra's photo
Sat 04/14/07 10:24 AM
It is a hard thing to lose a family member...Everyone deals with the
pain differently...
My suggestion is...Be there for him if he wants to talk about it, but
don't force him to talk...And be as supportive as possible for him....

Hope everything works out for you...good luck...