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Topic: had to call the cops
Laurluvssteelers's photo
Fri 12/12/08 10:05 PM

i havent seen the other post. i was just trying to figure out what has him like that. sex would drive lonely men who hasnt had a girl or a piece in a while crazy enough to do that. get a dog or a pistol. mace always changes their mind also.


Thanks for the explanation. And I have the gun. Dogs are too much trouble and a little hard to get on such short notice.

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Sat 12/13/08 07:02 PM

For those of you who read my last post about watching the papers, things escalated tonight and I had to call the cops. He gave me an ultimatum to be at his house or he would hang himself. I called my cousin who is a cop and he called the local cops in the guys area. They asked me to keep him online til they got there. That was about an hour ago. I haven't heard from him or the cops. Still don't know what is going on. Sleeping with the doors locked and the weapon handy. Holy freaking scary.

I don't think I will sleep much tonight. Hope the forums are hopping.


Next time, offer him some rope. Seriously. Most who threaten, don't follow through and get real. Just how important do you think you are to your borderline stalker anyway? He's playing you.

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Sat 12/13/08 07:04 PM


For those of you who read my last post about watching the papers, things escalated tonight and I had to call the cops. He gave me an ultimatum to be at his house or he would hang himself. I called my cousin who is a cop and he called the local cops in the guys area. They asked me to keep him online til they got there. That was about an hour ago. I haven't heard from him or the cops. Still don't know what is going on. Sleeping with the doors locked and the weapon handy. Holy freaking scary.

I don't think I will sleep much tonight. Hope the forums are hopping.


Next time, offer him some rope. Seriously. Most who threaten, don't follow through and get real. Just how important do you think you are to your borderline stalker anyway? He's playing you.


I will do just that if there is a next time. Might even offer to tie the noose.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 12/13/08 07:08 PM



For those of you who read my last post about watching the papers, things escalated tonight and I had to call the cops. He gave me an ultimatum to be at his house or he would hang himself. I called my cousin who is a cop and he called the local cops in the guys area. They asked me to keep him online til they got there. That was about an hour ago. I haven't heard from him or the cops. Still don't know what is going on. Sleeping with the doors locked and the weapon handy. Holy freaking scary.

I don't think I will sleep much tonight. Hope the forums are hopping.


Next time, offer him some rope. Seriously. Most who threaten, don't follow through and get real. Just how important do you think you are to your borderline stalker anyway? He's playing you.


I will do just that if there is a next time. Might even offer to tie the noose.


Another point to make is that you are not going to feed his illness anymore, and that he is not your responsibility. It could take weeks or months for him to get it, but he is not your problem. Any reaction, good or bad, is a response. That is what he wants and when he realizes he isn't going to get it anymore, he'll find a new person to victimize. Odds are, it wont last more than a couple weeks.

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