Ok so i was married for 18 years. I have been divorced for 2 years now. I have our kids and all there Not understanding. I wont a woman to spoon with me. I wont a woman that wonts to talk with. One that will like it when i wont to flood her with Roses and cute things. One that i can show her how important she means to me. The thing that isn't in my favor is my looks. From finding out on here. I don't think i am that dam bad but its been a real long time just to talk with a woman that wonts to look at more than looks.

funny...i just made a thread on here about this same thing called "missing out"

hang in there, the right one will come along who will see you for who you are, not what you are. no, you arent that bad either....i agree. some people are just shallow.

on the other hand, if a woman who was considered "not so attractive" gave you the time of day...what would you do with it?

Thanks..Yeah some are shallow. I just feel like i am going to bust.
What would i do? I dont know...be me.

I perved your profile and I see nothing wrong with you or your profile.



flowers for her for when you find her. Good luck.

I don't understand. You're a good looking man.

Sadly though it seems there are enough "jerk" men out there to make the nice good intelligent men not to be found, even with the best intentions.

So thus it has been hard. I know what a4realn8 is going through as well. Sure I haven't been on here as long as him. And with the holidays just makes it even tougher.

Thomas

You've only been divorced for two years. That's not a long time. That was healing time. It was time needed to get to know yourself again.