Topic: Going out on a limb here...
a4realn08's photo
Thu 12/11/08 08:47 PM
Ok so i was married for 18 years. I have been divorced for 2 years now. I have our kids and all there Not understanding. I wont a woman to spoon with me. I wont a woman that wonts to talk with. One that will like it when i wont to flood her with Roses and cute things. One that i can show her how important she means to me. The thing that isn't in my favor is my looks. From finding out on here. I don't think i am that dam bad but its been a real long time just to talk with a woman that wonts to look at more than looks.

madamx7316's photo
Thu 12/11/08 08:50 PM
funny...i just made a thread on here about this same thing called "missing out"

hang in there, the right one will come along who will see you for who you are, not what you are. no, you arent that bad either....i agree. some people are just shallow.

on the other hand, if a woman who was considered "not so attractive" gave you the time of day...what would you do with it?

a4realn08's photo
Thu 12/11/08 08:53 PM
Thanks..Yeah some are shallow. I just feel like i am going to bust.
What would i do? I dont know...be me.

pms64's photo
Thu 12/11/08 09:20 PM
Edited by pms64 on Thu 12/11/08 09:20 PM
I perved your profile and I see nothing wrong with you or your profile.

flowers flowers flowers flowers

flowers for her for when you find her. Good luck.

Winx's photo
Thu 12/11/08 09:21 PM

Ok so i was married for 18 years. I have been divorced for 2 years now. I have our kids and all there Not understanding. I wont a woman to spoon with me. I wont a woman that wonts to talk with. One that will like it when i wont to flood her with Roses and cute things. One that i can show her how important she means to me. The thing that isn't in my favor is my looks. From finding out on here. I don't think i am that dam bad but its been a real long time just to talk with a woman that wonts to look at more than looks.



I don't understand. You're a good looking man.

cofunguy's photo
Thu 12/11/08 10:05 PM
Sadly though it seems there are enough "jerk" men out there to make the nice good intelligent men not to be found, even with the best intentions.

So thus it has been hard. I know what a4realn8 is going through as well. Sure I haven't been on here as long as him. And with the holidays just makes it even tougher.

Thomas


a4realn08's photo
Fri 12/12/08 07:16 AM


Ok so i was married for 18 years. I have been divorced for 2 years now. I have our kids and all there Not understanding. I wont a woman to spoon with me. I wont a woman that wonts to talk with. One that will like it when i wont to flood her with Roses and cute things. One that i can show her how important she means to me. The thing that isn't in my favor is my looks. From finding out on here. I don't think i am that dam bad but its been a real long time just to talk with a woman that wonts to look at more than looks.


Thank You! Thats what i am thinking.
Yes i have heard and know that person will come into my life when it time.
Well it was time yesterdayfrustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

I don't understand. You're a good looking man.

Winx's photo
Fri 12/12/08 07:43 AM



Ok so i was married for 18 years. I have been divorced for 2 years now. I have our kids and all there Not understanding. I wont a woman to spoon with me. I wont a woman that wonts to talk with. One that will like it when i wont to flood her with Roses and cute things. One that i can show her how important she means to me. The thing that isn't in my favor is my looks. From finding out on here. I don't think i am that dam bad but its been a real long time just to talk with a woman that wonts to look at more than looks.


Thank You! Thats what i am thinking.
Yes i have heard and know that person will come into my life when it time.
Well it was time yesterdayfrustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

I don't understand. You're a good looking man.



You've only been divorced for two years. That's not a long time. That was healing time. It was time needed to get to know yourself again.flowerforyou