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Topic: Finally, a Little Bit of Progress
AngieH79's photo
Mon 12/08/08 11:58 PM
Back in August I had a run-in with a contractor at work who, after blaming all of my company's short-comings on me, actually said he wanted to kick my a$$. Who cares that they problems are at the corporate level and I was only in charge of one facility. Of course, I reported it to HR. Two weeks later, it happens again, and I report again.

One week later, the HR Director tells me that since he's not one of our company's employees that she's not going to do anything and that I need to go to his employer if I want to complain.

One week later, $hit hits the fan between the two companies and I get a phone call from my boss. I was told that I wasn't communicating effectively with this man and that I was being removed from my position. I could have temporary hours as an assistant manager at a facility that would probably double my commute.

I resigned and filed a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission only to have a wait a month for my first meeting with them. Now its two days before Thanksgiving, but they agree that I have a legitimate complaint so it is officially filed. So the next step is to inform the company and give them the option to mediate or fight the complaint.

I still haven't heard what the company's intentions are, but at least I was able to send in a copy of the paperwork I got from the EEOC and I'm finally collecting Unemployment.

But man, these baby steps are killing me.

SamaraNJ's photo
Tue 12/09/08 12:24 AM

Back in August I had a run-in with a contractor at work who, after blaming all of my company's short-comings on me, actually said he wanted to kick my a$$. Who cares that they problems are at the corporate level and I was only in charge of one facility. Of course, I reported it to HR. Two weeks later, it happens again, and I report again.

One week later, the HR Director tells me that since he's not one of our company's employees that she's not going to do anything and that I need to go to his employer if I want to complain.

One week later, $hit hits the fan between the two companies and I get a phone call from my boss. I was told that I wasn't communicating effectively with this man and that I was being removed from my position. I could have temporary hours as an assistant manager at a facility that would probably double my commute.

I resigned and filed a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission only to have a wait a month for my first meeting with them. Now its two days before Thanksgiving, but they agree that I have a legitimate complaint so it is officially filed. So the next step is to inform the company and give them the option to mediate or fight the complaint.

I still haven't heard what the company's intentions are, but at least I was able to send in a copy of the paperwork I got from the EEOC and I'm finally collecting Unemployment.

But man, these baby steps are killing me.


ok Im all done with my essay.. had some time.. and found this for you.. not sure if it will do you any good...

This lists your rights and your employers responsibilities when you're threatened in the workplace...

http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/assist/nvaa2002/chapter22_5.html


keepthehope's photo
Tue 12/09/08 12:26 AM
Just remember, before you sign anything have an attorney look at it and make sure you know all your rights. I didn't and got burned.

Wrenches's photo
Tue 12/09/08 12:30 AM

I feel your pain, Angie.

1. No fear.
Do not let them push you around.
Be polite. Be Professional. But be firm.

2. Failure is not an option.
Demand your job back. (even IF you WON'T take it.)
(can't see how I would)
Just out of General Principal.

3. You Deserve a job that will appreciate you
rather than those mean little self-serving Butt-Heads



Mr_Music's photo
Tue 12/09/08 12:35 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Tue 12/09/08 12:35 AM
This is why I despise Corporate America. You are not the "valuable employee" they claim you are, you're just a number to them.

And we all know, numbers are all they care about....just not the human kind.

AngieH79's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:29 PM


I feel your pain, Angie.

1. No fear.
Do not let them push you around.
Be polite. Be Professional. But be firm.

2. Failure is not an option.
Demand your job back. (even IF you WON'T take it.)
(can't see how I would)
Just out of General Principal.

3. You Deserve a job that will appreciate you
rather than those mean little self-serving Butt-Heads





I'm not going to demand my job back, I'm going to demand that they pay for me to go back to school.

SamaraNJ's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:31 PM



I feel your pain, Angie.

1. No fear.
Do not let them push you around.
Be polite. Be Professional. But be firm.

2. Failure is not an option.
Demand your job back. (even IF you WON'T take it.)
(can't see how I would)
Just out of General Principal.

3. You Deserve a job that will appreciate you
rather than those mean little self-serving Butt-Heads





I'm not going to demand my job back, I'm going to demand that they pay for me to go back to school.


hmmmmmm......... is that possible?
I would think that over first......

AngieH79's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:36 PM
Because it's gone to the EEOC we are talking monetary settlement already. All I have to do is figure how much school will cost me (I'm not going for a full degree) and use that as my bottom line.

SamaraNJ's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:39 PM

Because it's gone to the EEOC we are talking monetary settlement already. All I have to do is figure how much school will cost me (I'm not going for a full degree) and use that as my bottom line.


ok.. i thought you saying whatever it was that happened there makes them responsible for your schooling.. but if you are just simply suing.. and the amount happens to be the cost of school.. then I understand...

Wrenches's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:41 PM

This is why I despise Corporate America. You are not the "valuable employee" they claim you are, you're just a number to them.

And we all know, numbers are all they care about....just not the human kind.



...what he said ...

AngieH79's photo
Tue 12/09/08 11:48 PM
If that's the case they would have kept me. I was making money for them like that facility had never seen before. I was consistantly hitting 136% of projected revenues.

usernamefayou's photo
Wed 12/10/08 12:24 AM
oh America is so well managed, I'm actually just shocked

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 12/10/08 01:40 AM

If that's the case they would have kept me. I was making money for them like that facility had never seen before. I was consistantly hitting 136% of projected revenues.


Those are the operative words.

AngieH79's photo
Wed 12/10/08 08:36 PM
The only reason its past tense because I don't work for them any more. That facility is still running strong because of the changes I implemented

Goofball73's photo
Wed 12/10/08 08:39 PM
You should have b*tch slapped him for fun.laugh

AngieH79's photo
Wed 12/10/08 08:54 PM

You should have b*tch slapped him for fun.laugh


Don't worry, Goof. I'm gonna hit 'em where it hurts

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 12/11/08 01:44 AM

The only reason its past tense because I don't work for them any more. That facility is still running strong because of the changes I implemented


I think you're not seeing the point I'm trying to make. In Corporate America, a company's main rhetoric is to run strong, whether any given person works for them or not. Their aim is to generate revenue, and they will use whoever they feel like using to accomplish that goal. Those are the only numbers they're interested in. To them, you're nothing but a pulse.

no photo
Thu 12/11/08 07:15 AM
Edited by SKPCG on Thu 12/11/08 07:38 AM
You have another option available to you. You can sue this contractor outright who verbally abused you. He should have general liability, contractor's liability and perhaps even professional liability insurance depending on the type of business he's with, either on his own or within the contractor's company he works for. If he does have these policies, the insurance company will likely settle if the amount is reasonable. If he doesn't have insurance, you can still sue him personally and professionally.

If YOU have an agent, ask them for (free) input as to how to go about suing ****ADDING IN HERE : OR HOW TO GO ABOUT FILING A CLAIM!!!!************************ MAY NOT EVEN NEED TO SUE OUTRIGHT!!!, how to find out if there were policies in place at the time of the occurences.

I see here.... let's see.... defamation of character, loss of income, threats to physically injure, mental anguish.... oh the list goes on!!!

I'm a licensed commercial insurance service rep, so I'm not joshin'!!!

AngieH79's photo
Thu 12/11/08 03:59 PM
Now I'm absolutely livid!

They just promoted my assistant manager into the position. He only had a few months experience as the assistant before I left. But he's been doing such a great job running the programs that I set up, bull$hit! He's doing a great job because I set those programs up along with the policies and procedures to see that they run smoothly.

I know I shouldn't be so mad, but I put a lot of blood, sweat, and tears into a career that I am very passionate about and this company has ruined that! Now to add insult and injury, they are acting like I was completely incompetant the entire time I was there.

I just got my invitation to mediate today and I'm sorely tempted to tell the to f-off and open the investigation just to get this all out in the open.

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 12/11/08 05:44 PM
Do it. Prove your point, otherwise they'll keep thinking they can just keep walking all over you and everybody else like you.

I LOVE knocking corporations down a few pegs.

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