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Tushay! |
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It means they can't choose; always think there is something better around the corner; or, have fears of getting too close with anyone. Sadly, it is themselves they are unsure of and do not know. Their self esteem is lacking....and they are afraid of getting too close either because they think they'll get lost in the other, be eventually abandoned or rejected, or always see something lacking in another because of extreme perfectionism in themselves. Makes for a miserable existence. No, not everyone, but most. |
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I'm usually the one that does the one night stand to THEM. OOps.  Use me please!!  
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I figure if I am sending e-mails and it stops all of a sudden then I know that person must have died, or the house burned down and I will pray for the poor soul move on and hope to see them later. Try not to take too much of the e-mail content personally. When its gets personal it should be taken out of cyberland and into the real world. JMO
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Edited by
PATSFAN
on
Sat 12/13/08 07:23 AM
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One night cyber stand
 He stroked his keys & clicked his mouse & put in my mail box repeatedly ,then he was gone
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One night cyber stand He stroked his keys & clicked his mouse & then he was gone I hate when that happens. It should at least be worth getting undressed for. |
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I figure if I am sending e-mails and it stops all of a sudden then I know that person must have died, or the house burned down and I will pray for the poor soul move on and hope to see them later. Try not to take too much of the e-mail content personally. When its gets personal it should be taken out of cyberland and into the real world. JMO First rule of internet dating: "Its not Real till its REAL". Take your time and get to know someone first - ALL about them - before making any life-altering decisions. Whether that is online or off. Oftentimes, you don't even begin to scratch the surface of "really" knowing someone till you have spent considerable face-to-face time with them for at LEAST 14 months. |
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This happens.....alot on both sides of the gender.
There are a lot of people on this and other sites. Most people these days are A.D.D. when it comes to getting to know people. With so many choices, they get interested elsewhere too quickly. Quiet has the answer...... pay attention and really invest some time to get to know people, make friendships, and see what develops from there. JMO |
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hellkitten I could use an online one night stand DO ME DO ME I CALL NEXT LOL
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This happens.....alot on both sides of the gender. There are a lot of people on this and other sites. Most people these days are A.D.D. when it comes to getting to know people. With so many choices, they get interested elsewhere too quickly. Quiet has the answer...... pay attention and really invest some time to get to know people, make friendships, and see what develops from there. JMO I have ADD. I also choose for the wrong reasons at times. Fears of loss, abandonment. And, yeah - I've known a few people with "too much candy in the candyshop window to choose" syndrome. |
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This happens.....alot on both sides of the gender. There are a lot of people on this and other sites. Most people these days are A.D.D. when it comes to getting to know people. With so many choices, they get interested elsewhere too quickly. Quiet has the answer...... pay attention and really invest some time to get to know people, make friendships, and see what develops from there. JMO I have ADD. I also choose for the wrong reasons at times. Fears of loss, abandonment. And, yeah - I've known a few people with "too much candy in the candyshop window to choose" syndrome. it's the nature of the online thingy.... first, you gotta know yourself then you gotta take the time to get to know people, read between the lines and find out who they really are. It aint easy....... |
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I very rarely email people just out of the blue, but when I do it's usually to let them know they've impressed me in some way. I'm not expecting anything from it when I cut-up, joke or flirt with someone in an email,or visa-versa...
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I figure if I am sending e-mails and it stops all of a sudden then I know that person must have died, or the house burned down and I will pray for the poor soul move on and hope to see them later. Try not to take too much of the e-mail content personally. When its gets personal it should be taken out of cyberland and into the real world. JMO First rule of internet dating: "Its not Real till its REAL". Take your time and get to know someone first - ALL about them - before making any life-altering decisions. Whether that is online or off. Oftentimes, you don't even begin to scratch the surface of "really" knowing someone till you have spent considerable face-to-face time with them for at LEAST 14 months. Sooo...13 months is no good? 
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First rule of internet dating: "Its not Real till its REAL". Take your time and get to know someone first - ALL about them - before making any life-altering decisions. Whether that is online or off. Oftentimes, you don't even begin to scratch the surface of "really" knowing someone till you have spent considerable face-to-face time with them for at LEAST 14 months. Sooo...13 months is no good? I think it is that it takes that long to start to gather enough information. Also, people tend to let their guard down and start to be their real selves after the one year mark. Its like they think "this is going to be for the long haul", I can relax, start to show who I really am. |
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I seem to get these guys that email sweet nothings in my ear for a couple days and then WAM BAM...never hear from them again... Is this the online version of a one night stand? 
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OK fun flirty e-mails is one thing but...sweet nothings?
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I seem to get these guys that email sweet nothings in my ear for a couple days and then WAM BAM...never hear from them again... Is this the online version of a one night stand? OMG why do you guys ALWAYS ask that?
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ahhhhh.......ok I see your one night stand....
<<<<<<looks at hand again...... and I'll raise ya two end tables and a .... reading lamp......... |
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