Topic: Is love?
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Wed 12/10/08 04:30 PM
Is love fate, or is it chance?

would a person who meets more people fall in love with more people than a person who doesnt meet many people?

what im trying to say is does love happen because its preordained, or do people jsut think it is preordained becaue it happens rarely and it seems that the person you fall in love with was destined to be the one you fell in love with.

does a person who interacts with lots of people have more love in their life than a person who interacts wtih less people? does the person who interacts with more people have just as fulfilling love as the person who interacts with less people? or does the person who interacts with less people have more fulfilling love than the person who interacts with many people?



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Wed 12/10/08 04:45 PM
hi
Not every one who have atemporary relations ship in his life called love relation ship, which in general build on sexual attaraction, because love is more higher and pure than to be with the others undre the cover of love.

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Wed 12/10/08 04:57 PM
jmo but I think a person that is close to a few may have a better grasp at understanding what it takes for a loving relationship than a person who knows a lot of people but isn't close to any of them

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Wed 12/10/08 05:04 PM
You can meet alot of people and end up "dating" alot of people. You may love them, trying it out with them to see if you can find love.

However, I feel love happens when you least expect it, and it happens in ways that are not preordained. You could initially meet someone on here, start chatting for a few months, start to develop feelings, then eventually meet, begin to date, and then find out that that person is your true love. Or, you could just meet someone at Wal-Mart in the produce section, have a conversation about lettuce choice, and then next thing you know, you have met the person who is right for you. I hope this all makes sense.laugh

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Wed 12/10/08 05:06 PM
Many will disagree, but I think that there are alot of people that a person can fall in love with. I think that the difference generally is when the other person falls in love with you at the same time will decide your fate as to just who the love of your life (or not) is.

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Wed 12/10/08 05:09 PM
so you all think there is person who is the love of your life? everyone has one?

could random people in the street that you walk by be the love of your life? and then you walk by them, and its lost forever?

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Wed 12/10/08 05:11 PM
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Wed 12/10/08 05:14 PM

so you all think there is person who is the love of your life? everyone has one?

could random people in the street that you walk by be the love of your life? and then you walk by them, and its lost forever?


No, I don't think you have "one". You can fall in love with a few, or for some, many. But I do believe their is "one" that it works well with.

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Wed 12/10/08 05:21 PM
I believe that there are many love of your life people out there. I haven't met them all, probably passed them by, or have met them but it was a matter of timing. Do we give ourselves enough time to get over the one before? Do we give enough time to let the relationship grow in this 30second sound byte world? Do we have the time.
Sorry...gotta go. Sorry...can I put you on hold another call is coming. Sorry...didn't give me enough time. Sorry...have no time.

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Wed 12/10/08 05:26 PM

would a person who meets more people fall in love with more people than a person who doesnt meet many people?

does a person who interacts with lots of people have more love in their life than a person who interacts wtih less people? does the person who interacts with more people have just as fulfilling love as the person who interacts with less people? or does the person who interacts with less people have more fulfilling love than the person who interacts with many people?



love

neither fate nor chance.
a compatibility among two who see something in each other
familiarity, kindness, something complementary
laughter, excitement, pheromones

if so open and inclined,
a person who interacts with lots of people does indeed
have more love in their life giving and receiving than
one who interacts little.

and it can be satisfying. but so can finding a single
individual who can truly be loved and returns that love
in reciprocal fashion...

how shall we measure fulfillment?
a binary state.
fulfilled yes or fulfilled no
there is no percentage fulfilled
there is no measure of love

bigsmile

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Wed 12/10/08 06:36 PM

Is love fate, or is it chance?

would a person who meets more people fall in love with more people than a person who doesnt meet many people?

what im trying to say is does love happen because its preordained, or do people jsut think it is preordained becaue it happens rarely and it seems that the person you fall in love with was destined to be the one you fell in love with.

does a person who interacts with lots of people have more love in their life than a person who interacts wtih less people? does the person who interacts with more people have just as fulfilling love as the person who interacts with less people? or does the person who interacts with less people have more fulfilling love than the person who interacts with many people?



I've fallen in love with 2 men. Deeply. The best thing that you can do when you have a person that you love and, are in love with them is, keep them. If at all possible. Sometime's, they are not in love with you. And that my friend, is so painfull to get over. But, you do. Dating many does not realy up your chance's in my opinion.

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Wed 12/10/08 06:45 PM
what does it mean if someones says I LOVE YOU, BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU!huh
That does NOT make any sense to me!!noway

I would like some feedback on this one....!

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 12/10/08 06:47 PM

what does it mean if someones says I LOVE YOU, BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU!huh
That does NOT make any sense to me!!noway

I would like some feedback on this one....!
They "care" that much for you but, you don't own their heart.