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Topic: Is it possible?
lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:12 AM
To hate someone you've only spend an hour and forty minutes with?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 12/10/08 09:13 AM
To hate someone you've only spend an hour and forty minutes with? I can do better than that.... 22 minutes, 17 seconds....

Josh_P_Rad88 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 1944	Wed 12/10/08 09:15 AM
yeah..... well wait for that 41st mintue...u never know right?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:15 AM
Oh Sexy Lexy....I agree.... I had to meet with him for work, I'm sure the hatred started when the headache began pounding. But is the emotion too strong? I even found myself, ready..... ruminating over it afterwards.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:16 AM
yeah..... well wait for that 41st mintue...u never know right? No, this guy was creepy. I wanted to bathe in bleach afterwards. He kept calling me by my first name.... oh and in the 80's he sent threatening letters to Reagan...

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 12/10/08 09:17 AM
yes it is

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Wed 12/10/08 09:17 AM
Took 3 minutes for me to hate someone on a business call today - maybe cause he called me and all others in my company anal robots.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 12/10/08 09:17 AM
You know what they say, takes 7 seconds to make a first impression,

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 12/10/08 09:17 AM
Oh Sexy Lexy....I agree.... I had to meet with him for work, I'm sure the hatred started when the headache began pounding. But is the emotion too strong? I even found myself, ready..... ruminating over it afterwards. Maybe you should explain a little about the context -- I can perhaps understand it more easily if we're talking about one of your usual work-related interviewees....?

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Wed 12/10/08 09:19 AM
Depends if he's water boarding me or not.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 12/10/08 09:22 AM
yeah..... well wait for that 41st mintue...u never know right? No, this guy was creepy. I wanted to bathe in bleach afterwards. He kept calling me by my first name.... oh and in the 80's he sent threatening letters to Reagan... OH, OK, that clears it up a little! -- I think it might be more of a repugnance than an actual hatred - just easier to classify that way, maybe....?

Josh_P_Rad88 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 1944	Wed 12/10/08 09:23 AM
yeah..... well wait for that 41st mintue...u never know right? No, this guy was creepy. I wanted to bathe in bleach afterwards. He kept calling me by my first name.... oh and in the 80's he sent threatening letters to Reagan... HANG HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ......or atleast punch him in the face

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:26 AM
He assumed, wickedly. About everything.... I had said that he was telling me things I had not asked, and due to my completing paperwork I was unable to write down the statements. I said I might ask him later to tell me again, so it might be better if he just waited until that particular topic came up. His interpretation: "You told me not to talk". He kept referring to when we met again... At the end, I said, actually, Mr. So and So, this will be the ONLY time we will be meeting. And beamed. Hugely.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:27 AM
Oh, and that his doctor told him he was like an "empty sponge" and therefore could "not absorb things". WTH???

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 12/10/08 09:28 AM
He assumed, wickedly. About everything.... I had said that he was telling me things I had not asked, and due to my completing paperwork I was unable to write down the statements. I said I might ask him later to tell me again, so it might be better if he just waited until that particular topic came up. His interpretation: "You told me not to talk". He kept referring to when we met again... At the end, I said, actually, Mr. So and So, this will be the ONLY time we will be meeting. And beamed. Hugely. Hard to generate any empathy for people like that. Hopefully he ends up out of everyone's way for awhile....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:31 AM
He's been in Secret Service ordered therapy for 30 years.... I feel SO BADLY for his clinicians. But this time? I read his letters. They were freaky deaky creepy yucky icky gross nasty.... He won't go to prison for long, if at all. It is very hard to actually go there nowadays. Do I think he is dangerous? YES. And I'd guess his IQ around 78-80.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Wed 12/10/08 09:32 AM
why did you even go out with this guy in the first place?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 12/10/08 09:34 AM
It took that long

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 12/10/08 09:35 AM
He's been in Secret Service ordered therapy for 30 years.... I feel SO BADLY for his clinicians. But this time? I read his letters. They were freaky deaky creepy yucky icky gross nasty.... He won't go to prison for long, if at all. It is very hard to actually go there nowadays. Do I think he is dangerous? YES. And I'd guess his IQ around 78-80. Yeah, the "empty sponge" thing sounds like it might incorporate some kind of mental disability. On the other hand, in my experience, most of the people who did things like writing threatening letters to politicians/celebrities generally had average or above-average IQs -- they were just obsessed, not mentally challenged. Your guy seems like a bad combination. Still don't think "hate" is exactly the right word, from what I know of you...."revulsion," yes...."creeped-out," sure....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 12/10/08 09:36 AM
why did you even go out with this guy in the first place? Robin.... Sweety... I had to interview him in a county jail for my job. No choice. Know what? I guess my dates DO seem this bad though, huh? No, I actually started dating a professor and I'm quite smitten.