How would a male get past that ackward first meeting or conversation.
I've always been interested in how it works. It's like one your meeting
that person and the next they're at your place 24/7. I have been single
for a bit now, and I'm taken back about how even to get attention of a
female. I know some of it has to do with my stress of moving a few days
ago to a new place, apartment, and etc....but its got me thinking. So
if you have any good advice send it "this" way.

Well for guys I'm not really sure. I guess just be talkitive and ask a
lot of questions I try to do that so as not to make the other person
uncomfortable but it really depends on the person I supose. So I guess
just get to know the person by first talking on the phone and going out
for coffie nothing big make sure there is chemistry and if there isn't
then make sure the other person knows that. Don't take pity and go out
with them again, espically with women they tend to read into that kind
of thing.

First date are hard but if you talk it over and plan it out over the
phone it usually comes out great. Meet for lunch is truly how to break
the ice. Believe or not I never been to the zoo before so that would be
good on a second date oooops LOL

I was rasied around girls, and my "college" was 95% female. I am
thinking that I might of made an accident moving here. Orlando sucks to
begin with, and too many rude people (so far). I see these girls out
and about and I can read body language, looks and etc and they look at
guys. I however dont get that I'm not sure why Prob the same thing when
I lived in another town I was the big brother and protector. So yeah lol
thats a lil more into me moment =) lol

Sexy I'm asking or trying to see whats changed. I'm ok once I'm past
the first date or talking on the phone. I am just trying to see what an
icebreaker, or that head turn from a female.

How do you land that first date?

My daughter was looking over my shoulder and saw this thread.

her response (she's almost 16).

'Duh... ask her out stupid'.

he he he

so simple.

AB is right, is all you need to do,
some times when we like a guy, I mean really like him
and we notice he is uncomfortable, we try to make him feel
relax trough conversation and humor!!!

but that is just my thought

You're daughter is a smart cookie AB......just ask her out, lol.
Nothing wrong with being nervous. Don't weed more into it or you will
psych yourself out. JUST DO IT!

AB, she took the words right outta my mouth! Yep, just ask her out! The
worst that can happen is that she'll say no. So then you move on to the
next one. Piece o' cake!

well it's "PAST " the 1st date so i would say: i enjoyed tonight or
thanks for going out tonight or this was a great night thanks and if she
affirms she had a good time also i'd say "soo how 'bout[insert date and
time and suggest what the 2 of you will do]