To me a real man is someone who could step up and tell me if they are looking for a long term relationship or just a causal encounter. My style is to initialy verbalize that I am not all about the ass & if that is what they seek then they need not waste their time on me. Am I not supposed to give warning? It seems that after a few days of talk or during a meet the true intent does come out in some cases it literraly comes out & I am forced to end it there & go home all hopeless again. Its getting me to the point to where I dont even like talking on the phone & telling a man about my interests, etc.... it really seems like they dont even give a **** anyway so why am I even wasting my time?! Im so frustrated & sickened by all the liars trying to run their pitiful game on me!!!!!! What am I doing wrong? Do I seem so boring & tastelss that all I am worth is a good ****? I am open to any & all suggestions.

ALL men want sex. Period--old or young. It is the driving force is most guys. More so in younger guys. Most guys will base wanting to have a long term relationship with a woman IF the casual encounter is mind blowing.

However, (myself included)--want both...the emotional as well as the physical. Sex is fun...even great sex--but a woman has got to keep me interested to make me want to continue a relationship--what do you do after sex if you have no common interests/goals

Youll find someone--I promise...we are out there

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good men want..honesty, devotion, understanding,love, care, sex.

Bad men want...sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and sex..yes its frustrating

Great post !!!

Men like women are different. Some will lie, some will embelish, and others will be Real.

The only way to fine which the person you would like to date is to talk to them, and weed out those which do not share your ambitions or morals.

I want a pizza

no anchovies

i'll take internet dating for $10,000 Alex


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What is a huge waste of time?

Men need to know if there is a sexual connection. If they don't act interested in sex then you should worry...men are far less inhibited about their sexuality than women, overall (IMO).

Loosen up. Ask the guys what they want. The issue is, they might not know. They might be taking it case by case... but if they avoid the topic you have your answer.

the question to ask yourself is, "do I continue to attract the same type of man?"

if so, figure out why and stop it

Not only does my profile say no intimate encounters, but if someone gets past that, before I meet or get on with getting acquainted, I tell them and remind them I don't date casually and unless they are aware that my intent is to find long term and unless that's their intent, it's no deal.

I'll take some of that. But I'm looking for a long term relationship. In todays economy both people have to work, And it
would be a big plus if wanted the same things.

Alright, I wonder the same thing myself. Total judgment call, if they can't respect your values, they can't respect you, and why would you want to sacrifice that for anybody?

Im a baaaaad man.

Women are the same. But I guess for most of us, it's like how we handle seeing nude men and bare chests. We think, "yes, I like!!". But we also seem to be able to simultaneously connect to common sense more often. And we like to test drive, too!! I can't tell you how many times I liked a man, but the sex wasn't as hoped and I couldn't continue dating them. Or, they got not so interesting after a short time. But I just KNOW most people, male and female, know how to keep their pants on!!

I read what you said. But in all honesty maybe you talked to much about what you wanted. And didn't put out and they figured it wasn't going anywhere and gave up.

When it comes to guy's we can look,search and find the girl of our dreams.But when it comes to Ladies they are making the decission lately on who they would like to date

That is true I have to get out of here and get painting