A great friend of mine, who is a former member of justsayhi, is wondering wether or not she should come back on. I have been trying to encourage her to do so, but she is unsure of wether she should or not.

What all do you think? She had several friends on here who ask me all the time about her, now that they know I am in touch with her and visiting her and whatnot. I am going to be emailng them, to get direct commetns from them as well, but as a general populace, what does everyone here think?

Should my best friend and confidant, kitten, come back to justsayhi? or Rather Mingle2 as it is now called? Or should she say good bye to all her old friends and move on with her life, forgetting about the good times she had, and having more?

She is an excellent poet, and has some work in here already, although it is close to a year old I believe.

Well of course, what a silly question....and a poet? Does she not realize how welcome she would be? I hope to see her on here soon and be able to read her

Why doesn't she want to come back?

I hope she does come back. I was sorry to see her leave in the first place. Tell her hello and I hope to see her back on here soon. Take care.

trust me everyone I am making sure she sees all of this. She has done so much for me over the past two years, I would love to be able to get her back on here and reconnected with old friends of ours, along with writing again.

I won't go into detail, but to answer some questions as to why she left, it was for personal reasons due to some misunderstandings and hard feelings with others.

Now she is afraid, that some of those hard feelings are still there, and that she might not be welcomed back with open arms. I have told her how much hogwash that is, but all your respnses are doing a tremendous amount of good tohelp convince her that she really is appreciated here and wanted back.

(and i have a feeling after hse reads this, lol, next time she sees me she is goign to swatt me again; read some of my recent posts and you will understand)

By all means have her come back. Would love to see her writings back on the forums.

Well, then in that case, she should come back. I left once due to problems with people here so I understand how she feels. but, there are too many wonderful people here and good friends to be made to stay away. I hope she comes back and I would love to read some of her poetry.

I want to know who it is now....

Tell her to come back and reconnect with her old friends and she might even make some new ones

tell her dont stress stupid people,, they dont matter.

kitten..
stop lurking and get your cute lil but back here!!!!
i miss you terribly.. and it would be great to have some of the old crew back in here..
the people who have joined since you left are good people.. and i think you would connect great with most of them..

so get your AZZ back here NOW!!!!!

I recieved some good advice from friends here when I deactivated my account....... Don't let the past dictate your future. You cannot control what others do, but you can leave it behind and move forward!!............ So, come back kitten!!

come on kitten dear, get that tiny butt of yours back in here!!!!!!

and for those of you wondering, YES the lady in the picture with me is Kitten.

HERE, KITTY, KITTY, KITTY!!!!.......

HERE KITTY!!!!!!

NO PILLOWS HERE FOR YOU TO WORRY ABOUT!!!!


COME BACK SO WE CAN HAVE SOME GREAT TIMES AGAIN!!

Meow

I never cease to be amazed when I hear about people being afraid of cyber-bullying. These people are behind a screen...usually hundreds or thousands of miles away...they CANNOT hurt you...

I'm one of the recent noobs here, but you must be pretty special to have someone start a thread about you. Come back, Kitten & play in the sandbox...

Those who are negative with you put them on "block". Good button to use. After you done this forget about them quickly.

Those who are unruly on the threads just ignore them and move on.

Those who enjoy you spend more time with them. Before you know it you have your own friendship circle that you can share laughter and happiness with.

Well, you guys got me back...So, are ya happy now? :)

extremely happy kitten dear.