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I agree, but unfortunately it's not always the way it turns out. well i ithnk its nonsense. and if you have a rfelationship with someone...then its just nice to put an end stamp on it if its finished. not leave a horrible scar not leave without saying anything just a simple hey goodbye..good luck with life... i mean its just a respect thing. well you could still put and end stamp on it to finish it and still be a coward.. I wouldn't just walk away and leave them hanging.. but I wouldn't do it in person.. the phone so I can just say.. gotta go. or something like would be best.. but hey.. hate me for it.. I would do it to avoid the drama... depending on the length/circumstance/intensity of realtionship..I dont think phone breaking up is a cowardly break up...unless you just say hey I dont like you...click |
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so the answer it seems is avodiance of drama. and seeing as how it takes two to develop a relationship...and so the drama is personally created. if you leave it in a cowardly or dishonest way.....I cant see how you hang onto much selfr respect. there is no way I am creating drama by avoiding drama.. the drama queen that I am splitting up with is the one creating the drama.. and I have plenty of self respect and really dont care what you think of it.. someone asked my opinion and I gave it.. |
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I agree, but unfortunately it's not always the way it turns out. well i ithnk its nonsense. and if you have a rfelationship with someone...then its just nice to put an end stamp on it if its finished. not leave a horrible scar not leave without saying anything just a simple hey goodbye..good luck with life... i mean its just a respect thing. well you could still put and end stamp on it to finish it and still be a coward.. I wouldn't just walk away and leave them hanging.. but I wouldn't do it in person.. the phone so I can just say.. gotta go. or something like would be best.. but hey.. hate me for it.. I would do it to avoid the drama... depending on the length/circumstance/intensity of realtionship..I dont think phone breaking up is a cowardly break up...unless you just say hey I dont like you...click oh ok I was going by another thread that is up right now that considers anything not in person as cowardly... |
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so the answer it seems is avodiance of drama. and seeing as how it takes two to develop a relationship...and so the drama is personally created. if you leave it in a cowardly or dishonest way.....I cant see how you hang onto much selfr respect. there is no way I am creating drama by avoiding drama.. the drama queen that I am splitting up with is the one creating the drama.. and I have plenty of self respect and really dont care what you think of it.. someone asked my opinion and I gave it.. hey not tryin to dis you....all relationships are 'different" and really it should only take one clear 'conversation' to end things in a decent humane manner. unless of course you were living together or married...thats a whole diff topic. |
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so the answer it seems is avodiance of drama. and seeing as how it takes two to develop a relationship...and so the drama is personally created. if you leave it in a cowardly or dishonest way.....I cant see how you hang onto much selfr respect. there is no way I am creating drama by avoiding drama.. the drama queen that I am splitting up with is the one creating the drama.. and I have plenty of self respect and really dont care what you think of it.. someone asked my opinion and I gave it.. hey not tryin to dis you....all relationships are 'different" and really it should only take one clear 'conversation' to end things in a decent humane manner. unless of course you were living together or married...thats a whole diff topic. ok but there are some people out there with real issues that can't take rejection.. |
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ok but there are some people out there with real issues that can't take rejection.. nobody likes rejection.. but i agree some deal with it worse than others. me i might cry or pout.. but im not vengenful, spiteful, cruel, or etc. |
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i guess ya could just text
i cant make our date i have to go out with someone else at that time slot |
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I think we should get into im or something to make this easier to go on about.. seems to be just us with opinions..
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i guess ya could just text i cant make our date i have to go out with someone else at that time slot ah nevermind.. |
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I don't think that there's any justification for breaking up in a cowardly way. I don't know if you're talking about using the phone verses in person, or if you mean leaving without saying anything. But I do agree with some of the previous posts concerning drama. I think many people fail to see both sides. Some people are very prone to overeacting, dramatic behavior, and exagerated responses. If everyone reacted in a reasonable/mature way, it would be easier to cast stones at the cowardly behavior.
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i guess ya could just text i cant make our date i have to go out with someone else at that time slot ah nevermind.. ahhh come on ya can say it it was sorta a joke but hey you actually could do that
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one of these days i will figure out how to make one of those relationship thingys work.
and it MIGHT be difficult. but surely it can be done |
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one of these days i will figure out how to make one of those relationship thingys work. and it MIGHT be difficult. but surely it can be done yes it would be nice to have that happen i am sure |
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Guilt!!!!
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one of these days i will figure out how to make one of those relationship thingys work. and it MIGHT be difficult. but surely it can be done yes it would be nice to have that happen i am sure perhaps....perhaps.... things arenormal now..why complicate. why change? ive jsut gotten accustumed to being single. finally |
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one of these days i will figure out how to make one of those relationship thingys work. and it MIGHT be difficult. but surely it can be done yes it would be nice to have that happen i am sure perhaps....perhaps.... things arenormal now..why complicate. why change? ive jsut gotten accustumed to being single. finally i have been single longer than i was married or in a ltr and i am ok with me do not need a partner but it would be nice to have the right one |
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