Topic: What do u think?
Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:15 PM



go for it man. the only person that can know for sure is you. trust ur instincts.

dude...a positive post....i can soo tell ur newish
there wont be one person on here with over 5000 post that will be positive, unless they do it just to be funny tongue2 or imma be TOTALLY suprised


what? you asked i answered. what does anyone else know (or can know) about our personal lives. if u feel its right, and you are ready for a hella big commitment, do it. why even make a thread? what do you expect people to say?

HATERS!


lol dude i just wanta hear what they have to say, it doesnt really matter im just a curious person by nature

7z3r05's photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:16 PM
meh. best of luck.

izzie's photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:24 PM


honestly.. if you love her.. then fine. get married..
HOWEVER!!!
dont do it the 12th..
its too soon.. let her have time to plan the wedding of her dreams.. dresses, bridesmaids, family in town.. that cannot be arranged in a week..
im just sayn..
if you dont want her to hate you for the rest of eternity.. you may wanna hold off.. jan 12 would be better at least..
just a thought.


were just going to the court house, were doing the acutal wedding in like a year and a halfish, lol and yes im TOTALLY suprised u were even a lil supportive wow
MEH.. im a hopeless romantic at heart.. but im just saying that if you get married by the judge now and plan to do the "real thing" later on.. then life happens and the real thing never does.. i know this one cuz my parents have been married for almost 30 years (march 14th will be the big 30) and when they got married they went to the JP and got it done plannign to have the real thing in a year or so.. then my bro came... then me.. then life happened.. and they are finaly getting their "wedding" 30 years later!!!
just a lil somethin to think about.
:heart:
best of luck to you.

wzrunner's photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:27 PM
Pretty dumb idea! I wish you luck though. If you want a fast marriage, might I suggest Elvis in Vegas?

no photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:30 PM
Considering how easy judges grant divorces now a days is getting married and then getting divorced if it doesn't work out really any different than dating and breaking up?

Go for it. See you next month with 50% less stuff.

Seriously, if you two are really happy then I say what the hell? It is YOUR lives.


wmb07's photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:31 PM
Edited by wmb07 on Wed 12/03/08 09:31 PM
If you knew what kind of response you'd get, why did you bother to post the topic? Just sayin...

I married my EX husband after 3 months. We were together just over 7 years. From experience, I can tell you this - if you believe she's "the one" and you already believe you want to spend the rest of your life with her, what's the rush? It's exciting, I know, but give yourself awhile to get to know each other... talk about what you really want in your future. What are your dreams & goals? Do you want kids? Are you spiritually compatible? Do you leave the seat up? Does she care?

Marriage is a big step and shouldn't be taken lightly. It can be exhilarating to follow your heart, just try to listen to your head too. flowerforyou


no photo
Wed 12/03/08 09:39 PM
Edited by gallantan on Wed 12/03/08 09:40 PM
Focus on college and finish it first. Being married, full time student, and working will take a lot of you time. You may get burnt out bro and one or more of those may suffer. If you think you can then go for it. Make sure you both want to be together for the rest of your life. For better or Worst!

usernamefayou's photo
Thu 12/04/08 12:25 AM
he he he he he, he said marriage

just declare that you are, to hell with the paperwork

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 12:28 AM
I predict it will end just as fast as it started.

Have a happy divorce ^.^

scoundrel's photo
Thu 12/04/08 01:08 AM
You can "tell her" that you'll marry her, right at the start.

Actually getting married might take a few weeks.

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 01:10 AM
just started talkin to this girl saturday, and long story short were getting married on the 12th, 2fast?




joke thread lol

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:48 AM

just started talkin to this girl saturday, and long story short were getting married on the 12th, 2fast?




joke thread lol

lol u guys are 2 funny

seahawks's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:49 AM

Not that its gonna change my decison at all but....... i just started talkin to this girl saturday, and long story short were getting married on the 12th, 2fast? or do u ( like myself) believe that true love can be found in a short period of time? i feel like ive known her 4ever, and for me thats as rare as a green sky, I feel like im completly inlove. well u old farts can go ahead and tell me how dumb i am but is whateva.

lol on a 1-10 scale (1 being the dumbest) how dumb do u think it is to marry a girl i havent even known a week?
all that said ,why do you have to rush into marriage.!!JMO

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:50 AM
I dont see it as rushing bro

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:51 AM

Not that its gonna change my decison at all but....... i just started talkin to this girl saturday, and long story short were getting married on the 12th, 2fast? or do u ( like myself) believe that true love can be found in a short period of time? i feel like ive known her 4ever, and for me thats as rare as a green sky, I feel like im completly inlove. well u old farts can go ahead and tell me how dumb i am but is whateva.

lol on a 1-10 scale (1 being the dumbest) how dumb do u think it is to marry a girl i havent even known a week?


Yea...we'll see you in about a year, maybe less...

no photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:53 AM
<------taking bets!!!! $5???? anyone???bigsmile drinker

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:54 AM

<------taking bets!!!! $5???? anyone???bigsmile drinker


Double up?drinker

choclablover's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:54 AM

go for it if it sucks get a divorce though i recommend a prenuptial just to be safe u know but i wish u luck though i must define ur optimism as waiting for ur ship to come in when u have yet to send one out good luck crazier things have happened flowerforyou


Yep, Prenuptual!!

Josh_P_Rad88's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:55 AM


go for it if it sucks get a divorce though i recommend a prenuptial just to be safe u know but i wish u luck though i must define ur optimism as waiting for ur ship to come in when u have yet to send one out good luck crazier things have happened flowerforyou


Yep, Prenuptual!!

lol dude shes the one with the money tongue2

Wrenches's photo
Thu 12/04/08 11:55 AM

how long does it take to get a divorce?
I bet it takes a lot longer than "...less than a week"