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Topic: Friends requests
werdna79's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:12 PM
I want to know if anyone on here would decline a friends request due that person being a smoker? I sent this girl whom I will show the respect not to name. I gave her a compliment and told her that I thought she was beautiful and asked her if she could use another friend and she said..."no, I don't like smokers. wtf is that?brokenheart

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Mon 12/01/08 08:13 PM
I see that a lot

got a light?

RKISIT's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:13 PM
hey antismokers are affraid of that second hand smokeindifferent

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:13 PM

I want to know if anyone on here would decline a friends request due that person being a smoker? I sent this girl whom I will show the respect not to name. I gave her a compliment and told her that I thought she was beautiful and asked her if she could use another friend and she said..."no, I don't like smokers. wtf is that?brokenheart
scared brutal:laughing:

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Mon 12/01/08 08:14 PM
I smoke all the time I am online and I am told that others can smell it and find it offensive.
Funny thing is I know some people here are full of S**T, but I don't smell a thing.

eileena9's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:15 PM
I wouldn't turn someone down because they are a smoker......I sometimes turn people down if they strike me as creepy (ie asking for my number right away, not reading a word of my profile....etc)

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Mon 12/01/08 08:15 PM
Yeah I agree it's commendable to stand with your convictions, but I don't think that they would turn down Johnny Depp. Hell is trying to figure out other people.

beautyfrompain's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:16 PM
I don't like it either, but I wouldn't decline a friend invite over it.

cottonelle's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:17 PM

I want to know if anyone on here would decline a friends request due that person being a smoker? I sent this girl whom I will show the respect not to name. I gave her a compliment and told her that I thought she was beautiful and asked her if she could use another friend and she said..."no, I don't like smokers. wtf is that?brokenheart

its called preference. get over it

werdna79's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:19 PM
Thanks everyone. I guess that I was shocked that someone would decline a friend request over that.lol I was trying to be nice to her. I just sent a message back and killed her with kindness and told her she could have just said no or something. Anyone on here want to be my friiieeend? I smoke though! lol

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Mon 12/01/08 08:20 PM
we will not be welcomed by all, be glad of the ones that do welcome youdrinker

werdna79's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:20 PM
It was the way that it was said. Don't be a jerk buddy.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:22 PM
i personally do not entertain platonic guy friends who i can't marry should the current boyfriend/husband die off. So all my friends must adhere to my stringent criteria for mate selection regardless.

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:22 PM
The only time I ever turn down a friends request is if I have never talk to the person before. I will not accept random requests. Expetioly is it is one with no picture and no message attached.

But no, I would never disciminate to somebody who is a smoker.

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:24 PM

Thanks everyone. I guess that I was shocked that someone would decline a friend request over that.lol I was trying to be nice to her. I just sent a message back and killed her with kindness and told her she could have just said no or something. Anyone on here want to be my friiieeend? I smoke though! lol


Pull up an ashtray and join me.

werdna79's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:24 PM
i personally do not entertain platonic guy friends who i can't marry should the current boyfriend/husband die off. So all my friends must adhere to my stringent criteria for mate selection regardless.


I was not looking for a mate though, just a local friend. I guess that I don't judge people. Love the pic. lol

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:24 PM
smokin

Etrain's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:25 PM
flowerforyou sorry, did she hurt your feelings???flowerforyou

cottonelle's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:26 PM

flowerforyou sorry, did she hurt your feelings???flowerforyou

yeah, he told me not to be a jerk then called me buddy

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 12/01/08 08:27 PM


flowerforyou sorry, did she hurt your feelings???flowerforyou

yeah, he told me not to be a jerk then called me buddy




Mixed messagelaugh

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