No don't do that. Give us what we want to hear. Been awhile, how ya doin?

Cool. You're focused.

A guy who is awesome.
Attractive. (aka long hair/good hair)
No emotional drama.
Plays Old school video games.
Has a few tattoos.
Knows how to stand his ground.
Smokes pot but isn't a complete wastoid.
Loves adult Swim.
Has a job (for the bud)
Listens to GOOD music.
and that's about it.

Everything else really doesn't matter.

I have a boyfriend who's great and all, but I'm more of a geek then he is which is kinda lame. He also doesn't smoke OR drink, so that's a bummer too.. wtf.

Oh in that case we want a "nice" guy that caters to our every whim, gives in to our every beck and call, and never puts his foot down when we are being irrational. Someone we have to look after because he can't and won't do his own laundry or cook his own meals. One that doesn't keep a steady job, and when he does work doesn't do anything around the house even though we work the same amount of hours in a day/week. One that drinks excessively and does drugs to the dismay of the bills being paid, and lastly one that thinks sex consists of a minute and a half of foreplay and 2 minutes of actual sex, and demands it constantly.

What women are you seeing???

Women are looking for the anti-christ.

The End.

See note to guys under the relationship chat for starters!!

Women don't know what they want half the time; why do you think it takes so long for them to get ready to leave the house?

Dating a woman is like hanging out with a bipolar tiger. Sure, shes cute and all and will purr for you when you make her happy, but God help you if you make her mad

They know what they want, but they want you to want it, too, without having to tell you...and then they act like it doesn't matter that much.

And sometimes they MUST be freely bite, claw, growl, etc. A woman must exemplify each basic emotion in extreme fashion, twice per month, just to stay in tune with her biorhythm.

Not that any of this is important...just sayin.

...in reference to other threads...

Only if the anti-christ is a "nice guy!" LOL!

Hawt, Lily. I like men who fold their arms back over their heads after the literal "wham bam thank you ma'am" and sigh.... then look at you and say "Did you climax? Was it good for you?"
Or ones who deliberately throw a red shirt in the white load so they don't have to do laundry anymore....

What are women looking for? Honesty, integrity, SPINES.

My experience has been completely different -- what I've found is that most women would love to talk to a guy, but have a hard time finding one who really listens, really takes the time to understand what they're saying. It isn't that they can't communicate -- from what I've seen, they're MUCH better communicators than men are -- it's just that they have a hard time finding someone who's genuinely receptive to the idea.

So I don't think that's why you can't find a good one. Because I can't find a good one either, and I am one hell of a great listener.

Vouching for that..... one great listener here.

And I agree with the talking part.... I talk A LOT.

Figure them out?????? Why? I like their mysterious ways..

One of the things I've noticed about this whole communication issue --

I've seen a few girls post in "Rate My Profile" asking for people to have a look. I don't know if they really want feedback or just want attention or what -- I can't read their minds, and it really doesn't matter.

But most of the guys' responses are along the lines of "Wow!" or "I would do you, yup," or "your hot!" or something. Not really constructive, not really informative, just sort of puerile and juvenile and barely worthy of being shouted out from the sticky back row of a porno theater in the questionable part of town.

It is what it is.

Yes, and what exactly "It" is, well, it's not good.

You're so smart.

It depends on what your definition of "is" is....

the problem is trying to figure them out,don't try and life will be much easier.

Welcome back.