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Topic: The rules of the first date
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Mon 12/01/08 09:00 AM


when I'm on a date I kiss her first. That way you have it out of the way and the whole date isnt a lead up to the goodnight kiss

Guess it depends on the situation like how much she already likes you etc


nope

you are who you are regardless of who your with

if you worry about the situation or what she thinks of you then you are compromising who you are to be what you think she wants

and that never works

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Mon 12/01/08 04:47 PM


I agree with most of the list, but I also foot the bill for the date. I feel that if you ask her out you shouldn't be volunteering her bank account. Now, if she asks you out that's different. I'm kind of old fashioned when it comes to dating. I do the whole, "open doors, pull out chairs, open the car door, coddle to every desire, and pay for everything" mentality. Like I said though, if she asks me out it's on her dime.....even then not really but it's as close as it gets.


In this day and age, I agree that whomever does the asking does the paying...unless it's a "dutch treat" date clearly established from the get-go, in which case, it's really not a date, IMO!

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