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Thu 11/27/08 08:13 PM
Ok i wonted to know if yall might know of a good book or resources that helps someone that has gone through a major bad Divorce. I was married for 20 plus years to come to find out my X is a swinger. To say the least i am not in to that life style. When she left it was really bad, my daughter attempted suicide and had to be put in the hospital many times, she is Little better now. I have our kids and i work. Here i am at this place in my life not sure what or how to feel at times. Yes i have heard she will come into my life when i am ready and since she hasn't shown up...yet i am wondering what else am i missing?

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Thu 11/27/08 08:17 PM
read the book The Secret it helps

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Thu 11/27/08 08:25 PM
Sorry about all that brother. Just a rough patch. Sounds like you are taking care of things. Good Luck

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Thu 11/27/08 08:26 PM

read the book The Secret it helps


OK I looked on line i didnt find it..

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Thu 11/27/08 08:27 PM
it is also a movie i watched the movie on youtube the book was written by rhonda byrne

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Thu 11/27/08 08:28 PM

read the book The Secret it helps


i agree, i read it and it works, also, anything by tony robbins! awesome! very practical...

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Thu 11/27/08 08:29 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Thu 11/27/08 08:31 PM

it is also a movie i watched the movie on youtube the book was written by rhonda byrne

get the unabridged version audio book, you can listen while driving. audio books are often the best way to attain this info, for i'm too busy with my hands to slow down and read or watch. make sure it's unabridged though, that way you'll get the whole book.

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Thu 11/27/08 08:33 PM

Ok i wonted to know if yall might know of a good book or resources that helps someone that has gone through a major bad Divorce. I was married for 20 plus years to come to find out my X is a swinger. To say the least i am not in to that life style. When she left it was really bad, my daughter attempted suicide and had to be put in the hospital many times, she is Little better now. I have our kids and i work. Here i am at this place in my life not sure what or how to feel at times. Yes i have heard she will come into my life when i am ready and since she hasn't shown up...yet i am wondering what else am i missing?


It takes time to heal.flowerforyou

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Thu 11/27/08 08:33 PM


it is also a movie i watched the movie on youtube the book was written by rhonda byrne

get the unabridged version audio book, you can listen while driving. audio books are often the best way to attain this info, for i'm too busy with my hands to slow down and read or watch. make sure it's unabridged though, that way you'll get the whole book.

Thanks yall i am looking for it right now havent found the CD yet...

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Thu 11/27/08 08:45 PM
Ok i found it and oreded the cd. Will see if it will help.
Thanks Again..

Winx's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:46 PM
Is that your Chow in your pics?

a4realn08's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:50 PM

Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.

Winx's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:53 PM


Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.


I'm sorry to hear that. I love Chows. I had a white one. He was very special to me. I have family members that have Chows too.

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Thu 11/27/08 09:02 PM



Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.


I'm sorry to hear that. I love Chows. I had a white one. He was very special to me. I have family members that have Chows too.

Thanks ..White? Wow that is rare. I Love the bread. Funny thing is my 13 year old daughter wont's a little toy dog yikes a little dog....I have only had black tongue Chows

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Thu 11/27/08 09:04 PM
Edited by Ruth34611 on Thu 11/27/08 09:04 PM

Ok i wonted to know if yall might know of a good book or resources that helps someone that has gone through a major bad Divorce. I was married for 20 plus years to come to find out my X is a swinger. To say the least i am not in to that life style. When she left it was really bad, my daughter attempted suicide and had to be put in the hospital many times, she is Little better now. I have our kids and i work. Here i am at this place in my life not sure what or how to feel at times. Yes i have heard she will come into my life when i am ready and since she hasn't shown up...yet i am wondering what else am i missing?


:cry: Very sorry for your pain and your children's pain. flowerforyou

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Thu 11/27/08 09:05 PM


Ok i wonted to know if yall might know of a good book or resources that helps someone that has gone through a major bad Divorce. I was married for 20 plus years to come to find out my X is a swinger. To say the least i am not in to that life style. When she left it was really bad, my daughter attempted suicide and had to be put in the hospital many times, she is Little better now. I have our kids and i work. Here i am at this place in my life not sure what or how to feel at times. Yes i have heard she will come into my life when i am ready and since she hasn't shown up...yet i am wondering what else am i missing?


:cry: Very sorry for your pain and your children's pain. flowerforyou
flowerforyou Yeah me2flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:09 PM




Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.


I'm sorry to hear that. I love Chows. I had a white one. He was very special to me. I have family members that have Chows too.

Thanks ..White? Wow that is rare. I Love the bread. Funny thing is my 13 year old daughter wont's a little toy dog yikes a little dog....I have only had black tongue Chows


I think your daughter might want a dog that she can carry and hold.

a4realn08's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:10 PM



Ok i wonted to know if yall might know of a good book or resources that helps someone that has gone through a major bad Divorce. I was married for 20 plus years to come to find out my X is a swinger. To say the least i am not in to that life style. When she left it was really bad, my daughter attempted suicide and had to be put in the hospital many times, she is Little better now. I have our kids and i work. Here i am at this place in my life not sure what or how to feel at times. Yes i have heard she will come into my life when i am ready and since she hasn't shown up...yet i am wondering what else am i missing?


:cry: Very sorry for your pain and your children's pain. flowerforyou
flowerforyou Yeah me2flowerforyou

When i say this Thanks i really mean it. I am pretty much alone in this the x lives 5 hours away and she is already getting married to her new sugar daddy.. The kids just don't understand. It like when my daughter says to me" why cant mommy be like that nice lady"? What iam i going to say that. It has been really tough but i wont ever leave them i couldn't it would be like me dieing

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Thu 11/27/08 09:12 PM





Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.

Yep me too. She still cant sleep in her owen bed after 2 years now because the x told my kids that she was going to have me put in jail.

I'm sorry to hear that. I love Chows. I had a white one. He was very special to me. I have family members that have Chows too.

Thanks ..White? Wow that is rare. I Love the bread. Funny thing is my 13 year old daughter wont's a little toy dog yikes a little dog....I have only had black tongue Chows


I think your daughter might want a dog that she can carry and hold.

Winx's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:15 PM






Is that your Chow in your pics?

Yes he was, he crossed over the Rainbow Bridge:cry:
His name was Iceman or Puff Puff. The X took him with her. He was a great friend he knew when something was wrong and tried to help. It was so kewl to have had him i will miss him alot. Maybe i can found another great dog as him. He was one of the top Chows in the world last year. A truly great Chow.

Yep me too. She still cant sleep in her owen bed after 2 years now because the x told my kids that she was going to have me put in jail.

I'm sorry to hear that. I love Chows. I had a white one. He was very special to me. I have family members that have Chows too.

Thanks ..White? Wow that is rare. I Love the bread. Funny thing is my 13 year old daughter wont's a little toy dog yikes a little dog....I have only had black tongue Chows


I think your daughter might want a dog that she can carry and hold.



That's too much for a child to handle, IMO.

How do you feel about a small dog sleeping in her bed to make her bed feel more comforting?

Btw, It's not something that I would care to do but everybody's different.

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