Topic: WOW?????!!!!!!!!! SAD
Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:32 PM


I was just having fun with you other post. I am not opposed to getting married again But when you have been married and divorced 3 times you have to laugh at yourself and get over it. I would marry the right woman and I am being very picky this time having been maried to 2 alcoholics. My proposal to my lady is a private thing between her and I OK no offence to you
I lived with an alcoholic for 7 yrs., been there, done that, yeah, i'm not doing it again eitherflowerforyou
Yea I bet we could share some good stories about embaressing moments

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Tue 11/25/08 09:34 PM
Some of us have been married twice.laugh
And yes this is a dating site, not find a spouse.

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:34 PM


I created a post earlier tonight entitled "Question for the guys".

I asked how the men would propose and was sooooooo sad to discover that a lot of men out there have a serious aversion to getting marriedscared tears tears tears

OK, the guys that feel this way have been married at least once.

Here is what i'm wondering. Why are they on a dating website if they have no intention of ever getting married again?

And what has made them so not willing to get married again.

Was so surprisedsurprised surprised to find this out. Just wonderingwhat
flowerforyou Whats wrong with just dating?flowerforyou
Wouldn't that get really boring after a while?

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Tue 11/25/08 09:36 PM
not really sad
at least people are honest about how they feel towards marriage

I'm not looking for a husband either, don't believe that anyone can change my mind on that subject

even if I meet that one great guy, I don't need or want to be his wife

I can love him with all my being and not have to be married to him...

JMO

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Tue 11/25/08 09:36 PM

I created a post earlier tonight entitled "Question for the guys".

I asked how the men would propose and was sooooooo sad to discover that a lot of men out there have a serious aversion to getting marriedscared tears tears tears

OK, the guys that feel this way have been married at least once.

Here is what i'm wondering. Why are they on a dating website if they have no intention of ever getting married again?

And what has made them so not willing to get married again.

Was so surprisedsurprised surprised to find this out. Just wonderingwhat


i am not looking to get married..been there, done that....
if i find someone compatible and we date for years, live together..maybe...one day....lol

whatssuup's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:37 PM
I truly believe Red that love has absolutely nothing to do with vows, thats something the church came up with. true love is infinite:smile: love

ca803's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:37 PM
I think its weird that men want women not to judge them cause of the past.... but they are doing the same thing

buttons's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:39 PM

I think its weird that men want women not to judge them cause of the past.... but they are doing the same thing
true no man can be a slut... but a woman doing less than what he did is onelaugh

Marie55's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:43 PM

Live through what I did with my x and you'd understand !



Gotta agree with you on that one. My ex was a violent alcoholic.
I don't know if I would ever get married again, the last one cost me so much, emotionally, financially and physically, but as some said, if the right person came along, I would consider it.

usernamefayou's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:46 PM
I think you use the wrong word.

Marriage is a baddie. License and vows and approval-seeking and such--too traditional. Feels like it's an economical, social, and emotional trap to me.


Committed relationship looks a 'lil better.

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:47 PM
I have been divorced for 10 years and still say that I don't plan on getting married again. It would take a very special man to make me want that. However, I certainly don't plan on spending the rest of my life alone. I am on here looking for a long term relationship, but it all begins with the first date. Now all I have to do is have a first date.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:48 PM
Nothin wrong with marriage IMHO
I wouldn't want to date a woman who wouldn't be open to the idea eventually. Sure, it'd be nice to hook up, but I'd like something more if things led that way.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 11/25/08 09:56 PM
Me too I was just sayin it takees some time to recover never is a long time

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:23 PM

OK, I never said that I wasn't willing to get married again,I was just having fun. but what is your fixation on marriage? Does the fact that I put this piece of super compressed coal on your finger and mutter a few words in front of people mean that I am going to love more, that my heart is going to be even more true to you? Just a question
flowerforyou Not fixated on marriagelaugh laugh laugh OMG no. As a matter of fact I don't want to get married myself - EVERscared scared scared I lived with someone for 7 yrs. and scared that was enough for me. Been there, done that, not doing it again.noway sick ill i'm gonna be sick

I'm just an observer of how people respond to things and I thought the responses we're interesting

whatssuup's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:25 PM
YA you just like to give the pot a stir don't you

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:26 PM



I was just having fun with you other post. I am not opposed to getting married again But when you have been married and divorced 3 times you have to laugh at yourself and get over it. I would marry the right woman and I am being very picky this time having been maried to 2 alcoholics. My proposal to my lady is a private thing between her and I OK no offence to you
I lived with an alcoholic for 7 yrs., been there, done that, yeah, i'm not doing it again eitherflowerforyou
Yea I bet we could share some good stories about embaressing moments
blushing laugh scared I got em all honey. flowerforyou E-mail me, we'll dish.

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:27 PM

Some of us have been married twice.laugh
And yes this is a dating site, not find a spouse.

flowerforyou I stand corrected

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:33 PM

YA you just like to give the pot a stir don't you
I'm a "Rebel" what can I saylaugh Is that a bad thing? If it is i'll stop. I just thought of something. I've been wanting to get a tattoo and that is what i'm going to get "REBEL" tattooed across my shoulders:thumbsup:

whatssuup's photo
Tue 11/25/08 10:35 PM
I would never say don't be you

REDGIRL67's photo
Tue 11/25/08 11:02 PM

I truly believe Red that love has absolutely nothing to do with vows, thats something the church came up with. true love is infinite:smile: love
I wouldn't mind having a committed relationship as long as we have our own places so when we get pi**ed off at each other we can go to our own seperate corners of the world.