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I was just having fun with you other post. I am not opposed to getting married again But when you have been married and divorced 3 times you have to laugh at yourself and get over it. I would marry the right woman and I am being very picky this time having been maried to 2 alcoholics. My proposal to my lady is a private thing between her and I OK no offence to you |
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Some of us have been married twice.
And yes this is a dating site, not find a spouse. |
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I created a post earlier tonight entitled "Question for the guys". I asked how the men would propose and was sooooooo sad to discover that a lot of men out there have a serious aversion to getting married OK, the guys that feel this way have been married at least once. Here is what i'm wondering. Why are they on a dating website if they have no intention of ever getting married again? And what has made them so not willing to get married again. Was so surprised to find this out. Just wondering |
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not really sad
at least people are honest about how they feel towards marriage I'm not looking for a husband either, don't believe that anyone can change my mind on that subject even if I meet that one great guy, I don't need or want to be his wife I can love him with all my being and not have to be married to him... JMO |
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I created a post earlier tonight entitled "Question for the guys". I asked how the men would propose and was sooooooo sad to discover that a lot of men out there have a serious aversion to getting married OK, the guys that feel this way have been married at least once. Here is what i'm wondering. Why are they on a dating website if they have no intention of ever getting married again? And what has made them so not willing to get married again. Was so surprised to find this out. Just wondering i am not looking to get married..been there, done that.... if i find someone compatible and we date for years, live together..maybe...one day....lol |
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I truly believe Red that love has absolutely nothing to do with vows, thats something the church came up with. true love is infinite
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I think its weird that men want women not to judge them cause of the past.... but they are doing the same thing
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I think its weird that men want women not to judge them cause of the past.... but they are doing the same thing |
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Live through what I did with my x and you'd understand ! Gotta agree with you on that one. My ex was a violent alcoholic. I don't know if I would ever get married again, the last one cost me so much, emotionally, financially and physically, but as some said, if the right person came along, I would consider it. |
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I think you use the wrong word.
Marriage is a baddie. License and vows and approval-seeking and such--too traditional. Feels like it's an economical, social, and emotional trap to me. Committed relationship looks a 'lil better. |
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I have been divorced for 10 years and still say that I don't plan on getting married again. It would take a very special man to make me want that. However, I certainly don't plan on spending the rest of my life alone. I am on here looking for a long term relationship, but it all begins with the first date. Now all I have to do is have a first date.
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Nothin wrong with marriage IMHO
I wouldn't want to date a woman who wouldn't be open to the idea eventually. Sure, it'd be nice to hook up, but I'd like something more if things led that way. |
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Me too I was just sayin it takees some time to recover never is a long time
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OK, I never said that I wasn't willing to get married again,I was just having fun. but what is your fixation on marriage? Does the fact that I put this piece of super compressed coal on your finger and mutter a few words in front of people mean that I am going to love more, that my heart is going to be even more true to you? Just a question I'm just an observer of how people respond to things and I thought the responses we're interesting |
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YA you just like to give the pot a stir don't you
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I was just having fun with you other post. I am not opposed to getting married again But when you have been married and divorced 3 times you have to laugh at yourself and get over it. I would marry the right woman and I am being very picky this time having been maried to 2 alcoholics. My proposal to my lady is a private thing between her and I OK no offence to you |
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Some of us have been married twice. And yes this is a dating site, not find a spouse. |
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YA you just like to give the pot a stir don't you |
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I would never say don't be you
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I truly believe Red that love has absolutely nothing to do with vows, thats something the church came up with. true love is infinite |
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