Topic: does my profile suck...asking ladies only
beauty314's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:42 PM
even though its all about the kitty...
we like to think you boys actually give a crap about who we are
maybe a more subtle approach would work better for youflowerforyou


scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:43 PM
ok...so i'm seeing a few comments about the sexual aspect of the profile. i have actually been in the process of composing an edit to remove that part and focus less on the dark aspects also, even though at heart i'm still an old goth looking for love.

buttons's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:44 PM

i was recently told that i had everything she was looking for BEFORE i started writting, after she read the profile she declined...HELP. i need advise as to where i went wrong because i really liked her.does my profile suck?
maybe she was dating somebody although she had some interest in you decided to go with the guy she was dating or had met? honestly its ok to question yourself a little if you think it was your writings but dont ponder on it....flowerforyou cause you most likely will never find out for sure...

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:45 PM
anyone else got thoughts?

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:46 PM

winter..thanks...maybe we could meet some day. liked YOUR profile very much, you have a real talent.

Who's winter? Just wonderinghuh glasses

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:47 PM
ok...i'll address the gay guys (not meant to be rude), since in all honesty you guys ARE a bit more in touch with your feminine sides than i am and are able to see things a little more from the female perspective.keep talking...i'm listening.

buttons's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:48 PM
bigsmile i think the pic of the cowboy on the horse shirtless in his hat and wranglers is missingbigsmile laugh laugh laugh

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:48 PM
sorry writer_gurl...i was talking to you.

buttons's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:49 PM

ok...i'll address the gay guys (not meant to be rude), since in all honesty you guys ARE a bit more in touch with your feminine sides than i am and are able to see things a little more from the female perspective.keep talking...i'm listening.
laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:51 PM
laugh it up, but i really need the advise. i've been"out of the game" for about 13 years, so this is all new to me again.

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:51 PM

sorry writer_gurl...i was talking to you.

Awww, gee, thanx...But it was just an exerpt from a story I am writing:smile: .

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:54 PM
writer_gurl...i was serious. i used to write poetry and short stories years ago...not to mention a lot of erotica when i was in the army out in the field with nothing else to think about except getting my ass shot off by some other asshole with a rifle and me in their sights. you're really good from what little i saw, would'nt mind reading more some time.

eunice49508's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:56 PM
Sounds as if you are only looking for sex....if that is true, it's OK. If you would like to get to actually get to know someone, I'd decline too.

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:58 PM

writer_gurl...i was serious. i used to write poetry and short stories years ago...not to mention a lot of erotica when i was in the army out in the field with nothing else to think about except getting my ass shot off by some other asshole with a rifle and me in their sights. you're really good from what little i saw, would'nt mind reading more some time.

Thanx for the inspirationbigsmile I write fiction novels and short stories...Got a novel published last year, but nothing since then.

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:58 PM
thanks eunice...while sex is always in the back of the equation, it's not really what i intended to put out with that profile. a lot of others are saying the same thing...seems the gay guys really like it though, but i'm not interested in them like that. i'm thinking that my original thoughts about editing the profile with the draft i'm working on might not be such a bad idea.

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 07:59 PM
writer_gurl...mind if i send you a private email in a bit?

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:01 PM
Edited by scottvass on Tue 11/25/08 08:03 PM


writer_gurl...i was serious. i used to write poetry and short stories years ago...not to mention a lot of erotica when i was in the army out in the field with nothing else to think about except getting my ass shot off by some other asshole with a rifle and me in their sights. you're really good from what little i saw, would'nt mind reading more some time.

Thanx for the inspirationbigsmile I write fiction novels and short stories...Got a novel published last year, but nothing since then.

what is the name of the book and where might i be able to find it?

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:02 PM
hhmm sex talk and a cowboy hat but no horse

go figure

scottvass's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:05 PM
duckiegiggles...trust me there's a horse...just not in the picture.

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 11/25/08 08:07 PM
nah you gotta have the horse in the picture

ask cotton and e they'll tell you