"till death do we part"







am i really the only one alive left that believes when you get married you are soppose to deal with the good times as well as the bad.........why do people think as soon as it starts to get bad we can jump out of a marrige and look for the good again. what the hell is wrong with people today. why is a divorce so easy but marrige is so hard. Really am i the only one who wonders this..................am i the only one who believes in "till death" anymore

No, ur not the only one. Some people are weak and don't want to fight to save their marriage. I believe people should divorce only if there is abuse or adultary in the marriage.

If I ever get married I want to work though the bad just as much as I want to be happy. I want to only get married once. So no its not just you.

My parents had their 50th anniversary this summer. My grandparents were still holding hands after 60 years. I have more relatives approaching their 50th. Many of my friends have been together over 20 yrs.

You are not alone my friend!!! Marriage is sacred and forever in my book... God put one person on this earth for each of us and if you picked the wrong one, well your stuck in my book...

When I married my second wife...I believed it would be for the rest of my life...my ex-wife thought it was just until she could find someone else to screw and how to f**k me out of everything we built together...including my daughter. But I don't sound bitter...do I?

I would really like to believe that most people when they get married, then intend on it being forever. Some people don't have it in them to last forever. I think it should get harder to get married than divorced. You are not alone in this. It isn't just you.

Well, I will tell you that my divorce was that hardest thing I have had to deal with in my life. And yeah, I meant "til death do us part." Unfortunately, I realized that it was my death and it was gonna come a lot earlier than it should unless I left.

No you aren't the only one, but it is sad that when things start to go bad, someone jumps ship

There are many people with the same questions, and I think there are many correct answers. Whatever the cause, it certainly has become an epidemic that so many people don't take marriage seriously enough.

I second that!

I was talking to some friends of mine about my x & how she just up & disappeared one day & a gal was like; I don't see what the big deal is; people break up all the time.

We were together for nine years, a good marriage, everything in common, had a child together; and this girl didn't see what the big deal was with her running off with this fugging looser fling & throwing her whole life away, including abandoning her child.

What is wrong with people. It has caused more hurt in every party involved, including our son, than anything else I can imagine & it's "not a big deal; people break up all the time"

WTF!

I'm not sure the thought occurred to her to try & make our marriage work. Opportunity came knocking & she opened the door wide.

Things have defiantly changed in recent years, and I'm not sure there's many with the "till death" mentality. That's something I'm looking for now in a woman; someone who knows who she is & what she's looking for, not like all these immature b!tches my age I see everywhere. I've met quite a few sweethearts on here, but I have to do plenty of sifting, maybe one in a few hundred I'm interested in that seem to have marriage mentality.