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Topic: he wants to just be friends:(
njmom05's photo
Sat 11/29/08 08:00 AM

i was together with my ex for 2 and a half years. We had a beautiful baby boy last year and 4 months later he passed away. :( Our relationship crumbled. I still am in love with him but hes not ready to be in a commitment so were just "talking" and sleeping together. Am I setting myself up for more hurt?? I love this man but its so different now that he dont return that love back
please help

You need to distance yourself from him. Go through the greiving process for your son. It isn't fair to you to stay with someone who doesn't love you. As everyone else has said, you need to let it go. If he isn't in love with you, then why be with him? Take some time for yourself, clear your head and put things into perspective.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 11/29/08 08:18 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine! My guess is that you both need to grieve and if you are still interested after that...fine...
If the grieving takes you both doing it together, that's fine too. Don't put any pressure on yourself about that now...you've got bigger stuff to deal with. Blessings!

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