Just a random thought, why do we tend to think and sometimes dwell on things we cant do anything about? I was going in a differant direction when I started this but, yeah just randomly thinking. I guess I thought more about it when I was drunk the other night just kinda sucks. Oh well.

try tuna!!!!

i do the same thing...

we can always do something about anything... Even if it's only to change what we believe about it...

I think it might be considered failing to truly grasp the serenity prayer....

I was just doing that. Kicking myself for never going to college when I had the chance. I got so upset about it for a moment and had to calm myself down.

It's easy to drown in 'what-ifs'...

It's hard to change the effects of bad decisions. But not impossible.

When I was divorcing my husband, I went to a counselor and she said she had never met someone with so many "what ifs" in her head!!! She said for every little decision, I had 12 possibilities running through my brain and heart and I was so busy "what if-ing" that I wasn't just DOING and going with my instincts.
I'm better than I was, but I've always been one to take everyone else into consideration and it has impeded my own happiness too many times in my life. Some things we HAVE TO DO, like take care of our kids emotionally, physically, financially, but there are other things I put off for too many other people.